** LIVE NOW ** Spark?

Will I ever get a decent man with shared
interests and the SPARK? So how important is it?...

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Should I or shouldn’t I?

Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both...

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Location, location, location

If you're not in a position to travel for work, do you limit your search closer to home?

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When should you end it?

So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that...

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Strangest places you’ve met up with your IE

My most unusual meetup was in the back of a library during a book signing event. We were...

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What are the best chat up lines?

Hi,

I'm new here and I'm torn between sending a catchy chat up line...

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Let one's hair down

Full disclosure: I am genuinely a much happier person to be around since having an affair....

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Casual?

I'm wary of profiles that say they are looking for 'casual'. My interpretation of...

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Questions that make them go 🙄

I have been on this website for a few months with not much success. I get that ladies are...

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I'm curious to know...

...how many people have actually had a successful long term affair on here as I really have...

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Take things slowly?

I'm a female and have been on a lot of meets during the time I have spent on this...

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Expectations

Far too many people on this site have desires for someone fit, attractive, slim, sexy etc, yet...

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