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Petruchio 911 - 06 Aug, 2025 - 05:10PM

Read the other persons profile carefully and try to pick out something they have highlighted they like or dont like and ask them to tell you more about it

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Abid296 - 05 Aug, 2025 - 09:06PM

This is mine. "Hi ....., how are you doing? I have read your profile with interest. I like how you describe yourself. Have your read mine? Let's chat. x"
It's not earthshattering but it's friendly and factual. Wise people (psychologists) advise against long messages to ladies, as all of them need time to "settle" on what to say... etc. Even those hellbent on cheating need to "sell" the idea to themselves; then they need to decide: is it this guy or that one?
It's complicated man - brace yourself.

sweetsarah oxford - 03 Aug, 2025 - 03:22PM

I can tell you any one who starts with a one line “hi” “hello”
Or “should we meet” freezes hell over for me! I love the “ I really love your profile, I am very into……” type approaches as it shows they have bothered to read my profile!

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nasr27 - 03 Aug, 2025 - 09:21AM

A good place to start is to read the profile, after all isn’t that why it’s there? And try to respond to that in your opening message. So Ladies, please fill the pages.

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KenCollins - 02 Aug, 2025 - 09:43PM

Approach with a jug full of ice-cubes, then fulsomely compliment with the opening line " Wow, you must be a medical consultant". The obvious question/query will immediately come back: "Oh, why do you say that?" Your killer entree: " Because I think you've just cured my E.D.!!!
(P.S. : Will more likely get you a lot of ice over your "cure" - but worth a smile anyway!)

Bikerbaddboy25 - 26 Jul, 2025 - 11:10AM

You're place or mine . Damn we both know it's a hotel because we're both in a relationship. Sorry for the bad grammar dragged up in the 70s playing with worms and eating mud .

Anfihdl - 25 Jul, 2025 - 07:26PM

Good

Youreworthit - 25 Jul, 2025 - 05:25PM

One good way to break the ice is say something that shows one is genuinely interested in some interest or fact that the lady mentions in her profile. So, you ladies with a meaty and detailed profile make us gentlemen's job a bit easier.

Obviously we're here for skin on skin contact but deeper, fuller, and more satisfying is, of course, mind on mind... or even soul on soul.

Does that sound awfully pretentious? Well. So be it.

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Fun-Seeker9 - 25 Jul, 2025 - 03:56PM

Use an Ice-Prick!

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Stubear58 - 23 Jul, 2025 - 05:06PM

Context is important.

It appears any reference of anything sexual be it sarcasm or a joke can often get an instant block 😂 personally it would be good to have a chat a bit first and actually start to get know someone, be it before a picture or not.

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