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Casual?

I'm wary of profiles that say they are looking for 'casual'. My interpretation of 'casual' is seeing someone once in a blue moon, no relationship external of a bedroom, and being messaged whenever they feel they need sex. Sometimes you read the rest of a profile and they are looking for one person and want a meaningful affair. What gives?

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ExoticOrchid - 30 Sep, 2023 - 01:14AM

Hmm yet its single women married men worry about being bunny boilers ... 🤔🙄

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1447655 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 11:02PM

Laugar ... that sounds a total nightmare of epic proportion! And no offence taken x

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laugar164 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 10:56PM

Eliza boo definitely not levelled at you
But my experience with one lady was definitely not a good one She tryed to cause a lot of trouble for me I did nothing wrong but treated her with respect
The problem was she was in a u happy marriage and wanted to leave her husband and two very young children
And move down to were I live when I said that's not what I was after she changed I won't go into what she did but I can justify what I called her

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1447655 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 10:01PM

Completely agree FluffyClouds


FluffyClouds - 29 Sep, 2023 - 09:49PM

I get more annoyed when 'casual' profiles contact me when I clearly say I'm not looking for that. In do see 'casual' as just that, one offs or minimal effort at connection. As for anyone portraying themselves as looking for long term, when they're genuinely not, really needs to have a good think about their coercive tactic, because that's what it is.

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1447655 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 09:41PM

Laugar...

I'm suspicious of the term 'bunny boiler' (and no, im not aware its been levelled at me.) Thing is, it's never levelled at men, and that makes me smell a rat. I have guys that just will not disappear until I block them, on and off here. Relentless, and never take a no, popping up like zombies. But men aren't called 'bunny boilers', just pests, yet one term is distinctly more degrading than the other.

Men seem to like to think a woman gets obsessed with them, but usually it's the man's behaviour driving a woman nuts. I only wish there were men worth getting obsessed with on here, but sadly there isn't.

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laugar164 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 09:20PM

Eliza boo
I agree with most of you comments with the exception of this
. It's OK dude, we don't want to steal you from your wife, in
I had one lady who definitely was a bunny boiler and very scheming
Lucky I got out fast


1447655 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 08:03PM

To add to the casual comment, men who state "I don't take myself too seriously". What? Well if you don't, I sure as hell won't! Are they professional clowns maybe, or those guys who still believe women want a 'funny man' (it's very draining after a while).

Or the profiles that mention wanting "fun" 27 times. Maybe they need a children's entertainer instead of a woman?

Or worst of all, the ones who mention not wanting to change their marriage, rock the boat or any 'drama' every paragraph...these sensitive sould are simply not up for this life. It's OK dude, we don't want to steal you from your wife, in any way!

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ExoticOrchid - 27 Sep, 2023 - 09:49PM

Ladies ... he's a lost cause ... same old record every time and all of us are tarred with his bitter brush ... sad man ... I suppose we should feel sorry for him ... 🤔🙄

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1587522 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 09:43PM

I'VE also posted to mipaulac about his comments, but my message appears to not have being allowed thru the admins.......


SHAME!

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