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Naughty in NW - 27 Sep, 2023 - 08:49PM

Mipaulac

I agree with Paula99.

In my opinion you appear a little bitter. Is this the right site for you? Obviously I don't know what your experiences on here have been to date so forgive me if I appear judgemental.

Plenty of us on here are NOT looking for sugar daddies or any other form of material expectation or 'transaction'. Many of us are strong independent women who seek the same as you, based on mutual respect and upfront communication so there are no misunderstandings or misconceptions. Congruence is everything. Ironic, I know, but many of us on here are able to be more open with our 'secondary' relationships than our "primary' ones. Just be upfront and hopefully that will serve you better.

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Paula99 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 07:14PM

Mipaulac……

There are some on here that want to have a comfy bed …none of us are getting any younger plus the thought of being in the back of some old work van fills me with dread…

I see you are still harping on about ‘value for money ‘😁

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mipaulac - 27 Sep, 2023 - 12:09AM

Paul1769 - 26 Sep, 2023 - 10:03PM
What you're referring to by casual is a fuck buddy or friend with benefits which in the real world is essentially what an illicit affair is.
Unfortunately this site is more about additional "benefits" rather than a friend who wants to have sex with you and mutual love/desire .
The ethos here is the more you pay the more you'll find 😄

1623823 - 26 Sep, 2023 - 10:03PM

You are right to be wary of "casual". I want casual but not once in a blue moon. I make no bones about what I want………..a friend and sex regularly. There’s not enough women on here who are prepared to admit they want the same, and how. Casual is just being honest, there doesn’t need to be weeks of build up to get what you want, and youll find out sooner if you click

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Enigma.. - 26 Sep, 2023 - 02:43PM

@Elderadoesse

No such thing as “long distance courtships” or “slow build ups” on this site.

ExoticOrchid - 26 Sep, 2023 - 02:35PM

Here's an alternative view ... men (or women ... there are a few here who say they just want as many ONS as possible) who put "casual" are at least being clear and upfront about it as opposed to those who say they want something more BUT in reality just a ONS and going AWOL after they've had what they want.

Any woman who doesn't want "casual" can easily avoid them thus not wasting theirs or his time.

Simples!

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1625515 - 26 Sep, 2023 - 01:44PM

When I have it in my profile it just means no commitments but I never realised it could be interpreted as "only bedroom fun" or "rarely see each other".

ClassyLady77 - 26 Sep, 2023 - 04:49AM

To me casual means a hook up/one off. I avoid those. Men just Get a hooker, better value at least your guaranteed and you can be as anonymous as you like… 🤪

IMO Those who don’t meet are just Keyboard warriors who want either a ego boost or quick wank.. 😂 I’ve no time for people like that..

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Naughty in NW - 25 Sep, 2023 - 07:54PM

Eldoraradoesse

You're contradicting yourself in your last two posts. Are you looking for 'just online without meetups' In which case you're probs on the wrong site.

If you're looking for 'long distance courtship or slow buildups', you have more of a chance, but my advice would be to be upfront from the start with any potential dates...... online or face to face 😄

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Delicious Chaos - 25 Sep, 2023 - 03:58PM

I agree with Enigma

Timewasters is the word!

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