Casual?
I'm wary of profiles that say they are looking for 'casual'. My interpretation of 'casual' is seeing someone once in a blue moon, no relationship external of a bedroom, and being messaged whenever they feel they need sex. Sometimes you read the rest of a profile and they are looking for one person and want a meaningful affair. What gives?
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Paula99 - 22 Jun, 2025 - 11:08PM
Casual has many definitions in the Oxford dictionary and even more in the urban dictionary ..haha
There are websites for all kinds of debauchery …if you are looking for something niche then the ‘right’ place is appropriate …if you are in a marriage then ‘casual’ could be what you are looking for ..people seem to deem the word as something sordid …casual doesn’t imply that your guy/lady is not going to invest in your partnership …it could mean that his/he regular life takes precedence
There ARE members that use ‘casual’ as a name for ONS but the answer is simple …. Don’t go there ???!!
It is all casual in a way but it’s how you interpret it 😊
Casual is not a word I would use …it’s a bit USA English..
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Time and Space Traveler - 22 Jun, 2025 - 06:18PM
That is a way to use any excuse when they want to, but probably they used an AI profile generator and some more sentences whenever they need to enhance it.
LetsLaughLots - 18 Jun, 2025 - 11:41PM
I disagree with your interpretation
In my case I’d be happy to have a casual long term affair with someone I like and trust for many many years - for me casual means that I’m not going to change anything at home, not that I’m looking to jump into bed with just anyone and on the first date …..
I suggest if you see someone you like with that in their description you reserve judgement and ask them before moving on. You may miss out on your new best friend or worst case waste 5 minutes of your time
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EmnEm123 - 17 Jun, 2025 - 10:58PM
Enigma
By your rules that would mean anyone who isn’t married should leave also?
It’s a dating site, as long as you are clear about what you’re looking for with a potential partner it’s all good. No point with the hearts and flowers if you’re only looking for a ONS.
Depending on your definition of casual, I don’t see anything wrong with it. Who wants to, or has the time to see someone more than once a week/fortnight at most?
Therefore, it’s all casual!
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Enigma.. - 17 Jun, 2025 - 02:11PM
Seems to me that some members are a tad confused as to what type of dating site this actually is…
Here was me thinking this is a MARRIED (apparently) dating site for people who are looking for affairs.
Not some cheap sordid casual dating site for hook ups and casual sex 🤷🏼♀️.
So may I politely suggest that you GO ELSEWHERE 👋🏻
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Redfirefox - 17 Jun, 2025 - 02:04AM
I want casual. If I wanted anything else I wouldn’t be on here. Im still going to chat and get to know them but it’s not going to be a serious relationship. If that’s what you want Go elsewhere
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Vimto69 - 17 Jun, 2025 - 12:03AM
Any one up for nsa and fwb?
Please get in touch with me please thank you
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Vimto69 - 17 Jun, 2025 - 12:02AM
Hi everyone I'm vim from Leicestershire and how Is your night going for everyone
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Chezley - 16 Jun, 2025 - 05:52PM
Paula
After an affair, I'm back. How are you?
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