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Paula99 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 09:08PM

Vintage24 …

Don’t take it too personally….you have just encountered a ‘player ‘ …the guy is an arsehole …x

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Vintage24 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 07:35PM

I was chatting to a guy who wanted casual only, turns out he wanted regular sex (once every few weeks wasn’t enough) but without anything else, didn’t ask any questions about me or wish to actually get to know me, turns out he was also seeing someone, leading them on thinking she was the only one yet he was still actively looking for more to have sex with (though he claimed to want only one).

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EmnEm123 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 03:14PM

At least it's honest.

What does "short term" really mean or "see how it goes"?

Any new relationship is see how it goes surely.
And short term, three, six, ten months?

I'm sensing a bit of judgement which always makes me laugh from the people on a site like this.

laugar164 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 09:06AM

Paula 99

I have just removed casual from my profile as that's not what I am after, maybe I might have some luck 🍀 now 😂

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RobDLon - 25 Aug, 2024 - 09:01AM

Casual means indifferent, offhand, not regular. In the context of ‘dating’ that means no feelings for the other person just the act and implies that it is not exclusive, though it might be. It’s ambiguous in my opinion. Probably why there is a topic on it. Enjoy your Sunday!

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Paula99 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 08:27AM

Casual can be misleading at times and I have said before ..we all perceive it in a different light..

For me …it describes a person that wants to try IE but is not willing to put in the effort ..quite happy to take it or leave it because after all we can do these things 🙄

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1694776 - 24 Aug, 2024 - 10:50PM

Casual imo has always been just that. No commitment just Fwb

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1673920 - 24 Aug, 2024 - 12:25AM

Communication is key, check you both have the same understanding.

PZwittyman - 23 Aug, 2024 - 09:39PM

Hi noob here.

I've been reading the posts and as there doesn't seem to be much concensus on 'casual' I've removed it from my profile to avoid any ambiguity.

Down in the rural SW, I need any advantage I can get!

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EmnEm123 - 23 Aug, 2024 - 06:15PM

No, a ONS is a ONS (the clue is in the name).

Casual is meeting a person now and again when it suits both parties, this doesn't mean that you're meeting multiple people.

I saw someone from here for six months. We met max once per week, weren't contacting each other constantly, we had no need, we both knew where we stood.

That's what I class as casual.

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