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jen9000 - 16 Jun, 2025 - 09:34AM

ideally am looking for some extra marital fun without the real emotional attachment that can sometimes be involved with an affair. i have said i am looking for something casual as at least that way nothing more is implied.
i have to admit i was unsure at first how this looked to others so can understand it can be confusing to some

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Secret Victoria - 16 Jun, 2025 - 09:07AM

In IE days gone by the very glance at the word casual would have me turning on my heels, running for the hills never to be seen again! Nowadays I have a much more laid back attitude to the use of the word as attached people don't always think about the word relationship as they are already in one. The bottom line is that I always ask as per a previous comment. Simple. Nothing complicated about that. Not that people always tell the truth of course!! Good starting point though.

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cardiff84m - 16 Jun, 2025 - 09:04AM

My understanding of a casual relationship would involve physical intimacy and an emotional connection, but without the long-term commitment or exclusivity.

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Johnt697 - 01 Sep, 2024 - 11:38PM

Casual can be a encounter or an adventure, 1 meeting or a regular meet that works for both parties

1695729 - 30 Aug, 2024 - 01:34PM

I once had a lover, a widow, who wasn't ready for a relationship but missed physical intimacy and sex. She was delighted to find a married man to help her. I wouldn't say there was no "connection " between us but there was certainly no expectation for either of us that there would be a relationship. Perhaps this could be described as casual. Very many men and women here aren't looking to change their home circumstances. Perhaps thus renders any IE a purely casual exercise.

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1661843 - 30 Aug, 2024 - 11:26AM

If in doubt; ask. You no likey answer, you move on!

1599994 - 30 Aug, 2024 - 07:58AM

Some chaps confuse casual with relationship too I feel.
Met a few and all they want is sex but camouflage with also stating there needs to be some sort of feeling too!

Maeve is Here - 26 Aug, 2024 - 08:26PM

Casual seems like a piece of string really.
My understanding is also seeing someone once in a blue moon etc. as in the question, but dated someone from here last year with ‘Casual’ as their status who came on strong then disappeared after about 6 months.
For me - Casual is less than FWB

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1494077 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 10:10PM

I am one with ‘see how it goes’. It is what it says on the tin, i.e. the couple will decide what the best course of action for them is. I feel it is different from a set ‘casual’ scenario or one with a time or emotional factor.

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EmnEm123 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 09:36PM

Vintage 24 P99

Perhaps he's just a liar, or would like to be considered a player.

There's a guy on here who told me that he's a sex addict 🥱 and that he had five "on the go"!

I didn't believe him of course, he's not all that.

Plus where would anyone get the time? I'm not sure if the five included his wife.

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