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Eldoradoesse - 25 Sep, 2023 - 02:13PM

@Enigma..
Come on :D
...what happened to lovely terms like "long distance courtship" or "slow buildups"

Enigma.. - 25 Sep, 2023 - 11:19AM

@Eldoradoesse

Time wasters 😂😉.

Apologies I couldn’t resist 💋

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Eldoradoesse - 25 Sep, 2023 - 10:14AM

Interesting trail of thoughts below....what do we call just online without meetups?

1623840 - 25 Sep, 2023 - 12:43AM

Illicit means forbidden so for most that means we are up to something we should t really be doing right? . If you are looking for marriage I think you are on the wrong site. Sure it COULD lead to that but likelyhood is not. What is so wrong with just wanting sex? As long as both parties are happy with whatever is agreed I see no problem with any sort of relationship. Some people don't even want to meet and just chat. It's personal preference

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1447655 - 23 Sep, 2023 - 01:53PM

I really must cut to a and compelling issue...

QueenLilith - do you really smoke a pipe?! And why crocodile green and not, say, cadmium?

I really hope you do smoke a pipe. Your profile really made me laugh this morning, and it's not been a great week - thankyou! 👍

Jay122 - 23 Sep, 2023 - 01:25PM

I think it’s all so subjective. Just as in the sexy text debate, the very same ‘sexy’ words to one receiver would send them running like a firework had been ignited between their cheeks’ and those same words would have another’s head spinning and fingers tapping in response like a sprinter on fast forward’’.
Casual’ for me is more of a relationship that is not all consuming to the point of being a priority over other key responsibilities (family, work etc) , but appreciate from what I’m reading that for many it’s way to suggest a sex only based relationship when suits without compromise.

I think the very wise SandyP has it spot on, just ask, ‘what does Casual mean to you?’ And then you can move forward or politely retreat and mark down as ‘not for me’.

Great to read these comments though.

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1408586 - 23 Sep, 2023 - 12:33PM

Also I think these casual situations are almost always controlled by the man. They will be super super keen when horny and trying to persuade you to meet. Then vanish completely when they’re not.

That’s just my experience though

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1408586 - 23 Sep, 2023 - 11:44AM

Casual for me means occasional fuck buddy. Both meeting up once in a while when the opportunity is there. No contact in between.

Ive done it a couple of times. But it’s not an affair. So not what I’d be looking for on here.

I’d never ask someone to clarify what they mean by casual personally. As chances are they will just lie to manipulate me!

I’ve also learnt to discuss specifics like how often I like to meet/messaging in between etc before sleeping with someone. So I don’t become casual without realising!!

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Paula99 - 23 Sep, 2023 - 11:32AM

Sandy P ..

Hope it works out 🙄

Enigma.. - 23 Sep, 2023 - 10:47AM

@Sandypops

Good luck 🍀💋