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Distance & IEs

How do you feel about the distance between you and a potential IE? For example, I receive messages from men who live in other parts of the country but travel with work to my area. Personally, it makes me feel like they're looking for a hook up in every port they travel to. Is it better that they live in your county or the next? Can an affair be better and more fulfilling the nearer the person lives?

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Saint_David - 23 Mar, 2023 - 10:32PM

Not wishing to turn this into a pissing competition but I regularly did a hundred mile commute into work the morning after. I was like the milk tray man by leaving her with a smile on her face before speeding off at daybreak. It always helps when you're an early riser though.....

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chris19389 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 10:16PM

@rhondda ronin how far did your partner go for you?


Paula99 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 08:08PM

Miss chief..

It’s just a…ice breaker ..who knows what others think ….. just food for thought ?

By the way ..you’re not new to this ..😊😊

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1588499 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 06:54PM

It's getting hot in here 🥵


Delicious Chaos - 23 Mar, 2023 - 06:50PM

MC 76

Spot on girl 👍

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Paula99 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 03:17PM

You? A newbie? Ha. If being on here for 15 years or so makes me an old hat so be it.

As for a mans profession, I don't care. I ask 3 questions at the start of any potentials. This is so I can establish compatibility.

Availability Expectations Boundaries.

The Availability question is the most important at the very beginning. If a gent doesn't match my availability then it's game over. His job is none of my business and doesn't even come into having an affair. If we can both meet for that amount of time then what does his job have to do with it?


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Paula99 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 03:17PM

For all the newbies in here …try the distance IE and let us know how it worked/didn’t work for you..
It might be interesting if you tell us what profession he/she has and if they travelled for work or they were willing to travel/whether you met half way..how long did it last./not last as the case maybe..

I know what works for me and I have had a couple of successful affairs to boot ..

Enlighten us ‘old hats ‘ 🎩 😊😊😊


1551398 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 01:30PM

I have travelled to Oxford for my meets. That’s 2 hours for me.

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Quixotic - 23 Mar, 2023 - 10:16AM

Heathrow - we had met in town for the first couple of meets then due to his work it ended up being Heathrow - it turned out to be very Meh .....

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1408586 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 10:27AM

I had a one off with a guy who travelled about 200 miles to meet me off here quixotic

If he’d been closer to me we might have developed into something more, but at that distance not possible

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