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Romeo_Abz - 23 Mar, 2023 - 10:23AM

See for me I'll be willing to travel as I'm finding it very difficult to find anyone near by so maybe they are in the same position as myself? Also why not meet for a coffee or something and see how it goes from there.
Might be able to connect from the very first moment.

1588499 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 10:16AM

What's the *farthest* anyone has gone to meet up?

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Old Sapper - 23 Mar, 2023 - 09:57AM

If it's for a regular IE, then not that close that we're likely to meet people we know, yet not too far away as to make meeting up awkward.

Enigma.. - 22 Mar, 2023 - 07:05AM

Ps…
Where I live there are very few active male members.
I usually find myself travelling to Glasgow, by train, which is only about 45mins time wise, for meets.
As for those that can only meet up once a month or longer.
Bye bye.
I’m looking for something more regular 😉😃

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Enigma.. - 22 Mar, 2023 - 07:01AM

I was communicating with a man who worked in Glasgow during the week but lived in London on weekends.
It got as far as arranging to meet up when…
A friend of mine, who lives in Glasgow and was on the site last year, phoned me to say that she had met her next Ie.
Do tell… said I.
Turns out it was the same man.
Apparently he had women in both London and Glasgow.
Needless to say we both blocked him.
After that I have avoided anyone who travels a great distance for work.
If that puts a lot of men out of the running… so be it.

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1588157 - 22 Mar, 2023 - 01:43AM

The local thing is ok as long as its not too local. I wouldnt want to bump into anyone either of us know whilst out and about

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1586837 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 10:54PM

Yeah,my thoughts excatly...it will be exactly same situation why you are on here in first place,once every 2/3 months at the best....than said that I wouldn't want someone too close(found someone actually on here from same small town as me) only my fecking luck 🤣

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Redfirefox - 21 Mar, 2023 - 10:32PM

I don’t see the point in debating about this topic when we are all from a variety of backgrounds and everyone wants different things from their illicit encounter(s).
I might want one ie guy from somewhere within half an hour of travel to meet frequently or I might want 2+ guys from further afield to meet with alternately. There’s loads of variations.

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1583535 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:56PM

If, like me you want to be an old fashioned mistress, then yes, I believe close proximity is important.
I guess it all depends on who wants what? x

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Free Spirit 2802 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:16PM

In an ideal world, close but not too close would be the most preferable logistics.