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Redfirefox - 21 Mar, 2023 - 01:40PM

Mine are quite a distance away however they may be worth the inconvenience of it. When there’s a will there’s a way.

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1587581 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 01:35PM

It's time for me rather than distance. Living in Kent just outside the M25 I can get to Brighton quicker than I can get 7-8 miles into London.

up to 30 mins ideal
up to 45 min ok
up to 60 mins or more then your at the sliding scale of hotness and avialability.

When I was younger I once flew to America for a girl.....the things we do when we're young eh?

If you click and the availability is right and you can travel then go with it.

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Amo2021 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 12:47PM

We dont want to be on eachother doorstep, but the closer you are the easier it is to get away, even if for a short time, an gives you more time to spend with eachother rather than travelling miles.

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ClassyLady77 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 11:48AM

The nearer someone is the better and easier to plan meets.. obviously don’t want to near.. a few miles is more than enough min..

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1503440 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:51AM

Yes 30 would be fine or a little more like every one side do want to bump. Into them unless arranged

1588905 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:29AM

Only just joined. Think I would want about half an hour drive away. Not close enough to bump into as Acpk55 mentioned, but close enough that it isn't a major hassle to meet up. I guess even better if the other person lived an hour away and you met halfway?

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Johnnylondon - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:28AM

I would say, as with most things, it depends on the situation and if you're both comfortable. I met with someone last year (irl if you can believe it) that was based in a different country where one of my work offices was based. It suited her because it was some fun and excitement once a month (her words not mine) and suited me for the same reasons. I think as long as you're both open and the expectations are there upfront then either work - also there's a safety with neither of you being on each others doorstep I guess

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1554570 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:21AM

You need some amount of distance, as you hardly want to bump into someone you are having an affair with while you are grocery shopping in Tesco with your husband/ wife/ partner

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chris19389 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:17AM

I’ve seen women who also might be looking for a guy in every port, it isn’t exclusively a guy thing of course.

I’m happy if my illicit encounters are safely away from home, either way.

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