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1588499 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 05:41PM

ExoticOrchid - 02:08PM

Bloody hell! The show's over! 🥇

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ExoticOrchid - 24 Mar, 2023 - 03:32PM

DG/P99

Thank you ladies ... yes, it was great! 😊

1529050 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 03:04PM

ExoticOrchid - 24 Mar, 2023 - 02:08PM

Good to see you back hope you had FUN

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Paula99 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 02:30PM

Welcome back Exotic ..x

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ExoticOrchid - 24 Mar, 2023 - 02:08PM

Quixotic - 10:16AM

How about Dubai and Singapore for that first meet ... far enough for you? 😉

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Lonewolf203 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 09:19AM

distance shouldnt matter as having an affair close to home is way too risky of getting caught

1529050 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 09:15AM

Enigma.. - 24 Mar, 2023 - 07:08AM

I have had a lot of different meets - my first long term IE - we met day times, afternoons into evenings, over nights, and weekend away..... (it went on for a few years)

Since then my meets have been day times (all day - not just a lunch time quickie that is not for me), normally between 3 and 4 weeks and for me that works out just well, I know this would not be acceptable to some.

For me it is the planning then the excitement of the meet, choosing our hotel, planning nice food and wine and of course for me nice lingerie.... then close the door and have our fun shutting the world away.

We can meet up for coffee/lunch/drink in between meets which is nice too.

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1587581 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 08:29AM

Enigma-

The flip side to that is I can come and go as I want, yet I'm finding that puts more off than it attracts. There's simply no/not enough jeopardy to make the affair feel "illicit" enough.

It seems the sneaking about to some is the most important part of the entire arrangement.

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Enigma.. - 24 Mar, 2023 - 07:08AM

Unfortunately a lot of men work Monday to Friday 9 - 5. This usually means they cannot meet during week day’s. Unless, of course, their job allows them to get out and about.

Like most female members on the site, I should imagine, my first question is…

When and how often can you meet up?

If they can’t do week day meetings or are restricted over the weekend… then it’s a no from me.

What’s the point in forking out money, to be on the site, for a few weeks when you can only meet once a month or less 🤷🏼‍♀️.

Biggest issue I have on here… 🙄

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1529050 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 06:19AM

Miss Chief 76 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 06:28PM

I don’t think Paula was saying she’s a newbie - her question/statement was for newbies to get their take on the whole distance thing. I guess the job was because in other posts on this thread people have mentioned people who travel with their work … ie might not live in your area but are a regular visitor…

I definitely agree with you about availability … that needs to work - for example if someone wanted a weekly meet that wouldn’t work for me. I’m definitely not that interested in work/home life - our time together should just be about us.

And it’s finally Friday !!