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RebelDomina - 10 May, 2020 - 10:05AM

I've been there, was lead to it ... learnt a huge lesson, broke me and this secret world was never the same. A hug your way...

Now, how to stop it... give chances to the guys that you know you won't fall for. You could be pleasantly surprised !

I don't get attached by giving myself a reality call... as great as someone may sound, you don't get the full package, so the annoying things is the lady at home that has to deal with.
Your affair is probably as bad as any other man you wouldn't see yourself with in different circumstances
Also, it's okay to care for someone, to lust ... but most times it isn't love tho.

To guys here, not every woman needs to think she is exclusive, or being promised the world on the side to sleep with you lolol i hope!
Honesty can be the new sexy, in my opinion..

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Geek0808 - 10 May, 2020 - 09:53AM

Are you human if you don’t?

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turquilmaz - 10 May, 2020 - 09:35AM

If it’s a regular thing, it be natural to fall for someone as you get to know them. It’s a question of separating your emotional and sexual needs which over time can get pretty complicated.

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1188496 - 10 May, 2020 - 09:34AM

You can't help but get attached even though you might not set out to. It's only human nature and men can get attached just as much as women

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1028972 - 10 May, 2020 - 09:29AM

It's very difficult to stop falling from an IE especially the longer you are together, we met here with my IE over 4 years ago and getting stronger and even better together, but we haven't gotten carried away and mess up at home we keep reminding each other what we are missing from home, and also how much we have to lose...it has worked so far but honestly speaking the term no strings attached doesn't really work when you have a good IE, somehow you get to care about them and genuinely want to help them as much as possible...
We just feel lucky we found each other on here and enjoy each others company without any boundaries... good luck in your search and don't give up.
TIP : try not to look the same type all the time, especially don't mirror the type with what you already have at home ,😁😀 I did surprised myself with my IE xx

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1384178 - 10 May, 2020 - 09:23AM

I don't think that's possible...not developing feelings for your ie. Truth is most men say they are looking for just the one affair but in truth they are not. And I'm speaking from experience from this site. Women have affairs for emotional reasons...most men just for sex

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Findingfriend - 10 May, 2020 - 09:10AM

Its easy easy to fall for someone ,i think its important to say at the start what you want

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