Attachment?
How do you stop yourselves from falling for your ie? I’ve been here before and fell for him only to find out he had other women from the site and was on many other sites. It ended because I wanted an exclusive long term affair. Can any of you really say you don’t get attached to your ie after many months of being together? One night stands are not for me
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1334304 - 10 May, 2020 - 10:46PM
I’ve had the opposite happen to me! The first guy who I met off IE who I saw for a few months only turned up for an over night date missing his ring and asking for me to be with him!😳 Others had also wanted more from me than I was willing to give.....
I guess I knew what I wanted from the outset. It’s all about compartmentalising and truly being open and honest from the start as to what you want? It doesn’t mean I have no feelings, I’m just trying to respect his situation as much as mine. It hard, but you’ll get there!
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1262378 - 10 May, 2020 - 10:40PM
Essentially, you can't! Both parties have a need, in search of something better. Intimacy may be lost and that's what needs replacing. Some have lost more, trust, self confidence and lots more. To leave may cost more that just finances.
If things progress, why not want it all. They're all choices and we need to take responsibility for all IE relationships entail.
Good luck if you find this mutual respect
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gemini2310 - 10 May, 2020 - 09:47PM
I feel really sorry for this lady he must be a serial cheater but on these sites anyone can tell you anything and be chatting to loads of people and at the end of they can chat to who ever they want.
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1315970 - 10 May, 2020 - 09:27PM
You don't come.on here to fall, chat first get trust. Make sure your fwb is autonomous and not codependent.
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1315970 - 10 May, 2020 - 09:27PM
You don't come.on here to fall, chat first get trust. Make sure your fwb is autonomous and not codependent.
1040457 - 10 May, 2020 - 09:27PM
I'm with the same guy I met here for more than 4 years now. At one points I fall Completely for him. And we Keep telling eachother this is not the Right times to do anything as we both have young children with our own partner...
I Love him. He love me. But I'm Not Attached to him. My Love is Pure. I don't Need to Own him.
Once you Understand what is Love and Attachment. It's All become Clear....
That's my Experience from IE. And We both grateful for this Site
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657979 - 10 May, 2020 - 08:36PM
I fell... she fell.. too upsetting for us both in the end
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1028972 - 10 May, 2020 - 08:36PM
@Sexsy1xxx
Its all mutual, we agreed to even fulfill every dream....sun,...hay and all that lol
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1381862 - 10 May, 2020 - 06:50PM
Just block him and cut off that communication, you deserve better.
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