Comments (55)

Scrappymog - 25 Jan, 2025 - 01:01PM

Don’t fuck up the first date.

MagicMouse321 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 11:57AM

Perhaps just focus on one?!

Dating four women at the same time surely means you are going to cut corners and not be present as fully as you could be.

And on the date “Leave them wanting more” as they say in show business! Just be the 100% of you and you will be successful.

justlooking111 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 10:37AM

Shower, nails, shoes
listen with curiosity
Speak with honesty
Act with integrity!
It's an information exchange not a pitch.
Smile:) People who cannot smile should not open shops!

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boav91 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 09:04AM

I never liked ghosting. If you don’t think it will work people should be grown up and have the balls to say sorry not for them. How much does that take. It is polite and kind to the other person. Not everyone will get on and it can take some time to work out it is not for them. If you want different things to the person you meet, that is life but ghosting is in my option simply rude. There are players here of both sexes who don’t care and are not decent people however. There are as many genuine people.

You will find the right person. Took me nearly 9 months and a few failed online chats and one failed meet before I my ie. Keep trying

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Peaches1 - 02 Sep, 2024 - 11:17PM

I cant seem to get past the first date without them mentioning a hotel after an hours brew. Gives me the ick, so no second date from me.

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1689233 - 23 Jul, 2024 - 10:55AM

As piece of shit Russell Brand once said "ghosting is an invitation to relinquish the relationship!".

Don't overthink it, they weren't meant to be. Tell yourself that they're the ones who missed out and keep searching.

I'm saying the above on the assumption that you're a decent fella and not a living breathing red flag to potential IEs.

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1680841 - 17 Jul, 2024 - 06:13PM

So, you've made an impression during the 'messaging' phase; either on here or via another platform. Swapped pics; again, either on here or another platform.
You've both then gone so far as to arrange one or two meets but nothing thereafter?

Have you perhaps 'over egged' the messaging? Bigged yourself up beyond your capability? Have your pics been a fair representation of you and not old, poor quality or filtered?
Does your profile (be it basic or detailed) reflect you?

When you met, did you get a positive reaction from your date (eye contact, body language, the flow of conversation)? Was the experience fun, enjoyable? Did the time you spent together seem to vanish too quickly?
Could you have missed a cue; subtle or otherwise.

Loads of things to consider here that normally happen in the blink of an eye of meeting someone

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1688202 - 17 Jul, 2024 - 05:53PM

The worst is when you've met a few times and think this is going OK, exchange messages and naughty pics between meets and open up a bit more with each other.... then complete radio silence although you can still see they've been logging in. WTF you'd think as adults doing this we can say it how it is right if we've lost interest or changed our mind.
So very tempted to send a sarcastic message, but it's easier just to not waste your time and find someone else.

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1687814 - 16 Jul, 2024 - 06:41PM

Until you know why your previous dates haven’t progressed, you’re not gonna know so until that happens, everything else is just guessing.

Funguy77 - 16 Jul, 2024 - 02:08PM

@ rarity23 - 16 Jul, 2024 - 01:39PM

That’s the idea scenario and you express it so eloquently

@ Beckysharp - 16 Jul, 2024 - 01:50PM

lol like teenagers aye 😂 love the thought of that

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