When will I see you again?
I have met 4 beautiful ladies in the past few months since joining IE. I enjoyed all my meets enough to have a second date but have subsequently been ghosted and rejected by all of them. I have another first meet arranged next week. What can I do to increase my chances of a second meet and hopefully a longer term IE?
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1797946 - 13 Jul, 2025 - 06:14PM
Treat them like they not getting at home
Bikerdude69 - 13 Jul, 2025 - 05:00PM
Your lucky to even get one meet what's your secret 🤣
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Justbegenuine - 13 Jul, 2025 - 01:29PM
I think the reason success rates are low is because people constantly reassess what’s important to them. A lot of people think they want an affair and then the guilt takes over, some believe they can constantly do better
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Black Gent - 21 May, 2025 - 10:43AM
Just be pleasant. some people can be quite flakey and some can be quite picky. Just don't take it personally.
tmn2024 - 14 Apr, 2025 - 08:54AM
I've had back and forth messaging with quite a few people on IE. Three went past the first few interactions, all of them seemed really promising. The first two suddenly just stopped replying to me after tens of messages, very hurtful. The third - we were getting to know each other for about a month, seemed to hit it off very well. Met once for coffee, subsequent feedback was glowing. We arranged for lunch on Saturday, but on Saturday morning I woke up to a "Dear John" and her WhatsApp profile photo was gone.....which I believe means I was blocked. And now I'm back to square one. Decided to login this morning, my reasons for being here still exist, but not sure if I'll ever find what I'm looking for.
Cheryl Kim - 13 Apr, 2025 - 04:36PM
Roofpitched17 - 13 Apr, 2025 - 02:07PM
It’s a decent enough profile. Tells people what you’re after, and nicely laid out without labouring on.
1749924 - 13 Apr, 2025 - 02:07PM
Would you have any advice on my profile please?
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1651386 - 13 Apr, 2025 - 12:38PM
You might have just been unlucky! I find if the chat beforehand has gone well, then the first meet usually goes well and it moves on from there but I have met one coffee date that I just didn’t want to go to bed with, there was nothing wrong with her I just didn’t get that ‘I’d like to bed you’ vibe, she was exactly the same as her pictures but I wasn't just in it for a quick fix! After the meet I texted her later and explained, she was great and totally understood, I wouldn’t have ghosted her, that’s not on at all.
Secretdateguy0871 - 13 Apr, 2025 - 10:58AM
Im new to this site but have neen on simular sites. I've met women and gone on to have tremendous relationships. The biggest pain is the intial contact as it costs money to msg someone and i think its just plain rude when they ignore the message or even worse say hi and then ghost. Manners and politeness cost nothing.
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