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When will I see you again?

I have met 4 beautiful ladies in the past few months since joining IE. I enjoyed all my meets enough to have a second date but have subsequently been ghosted and rejected by all of them. I have another first meet arranged next week. What can I do to increase my chances of a second meet and hopefully a longer term IE?

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1742947 - 25 Mar, 2025 - 06:20PM

Pre work - Prepare early - read her profile and through her corresepondence, think of some interesting open ended questions (ones that don't end in a Yes or No answer)
1. Shower and after shave
2. Hair cut
3. Nails
4. Clothes - new and washed
5 turn up v. early
6. listen - use your mouth and ears in the proportion God gave them to you
listen with curiosity, speak with honesty, act with integrity.
7. Remember the Chinese proverb ...woman who cannot smile should not open shop!
8. this is about enjoyment for both of you - if nothing else happens enjoy the experience and make sure she does too, irrespective if whether you fancy her or not
9 Pay the bill irrespective of whether you fancy her or not
10. Dont be pushy,read up on body langauge etc

Good luck

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EmnEm123 - 25 Mar, 2025 - 12:37PM

Funguy77

Unless the lady in question confirms smiles all round, we'll just have to take your word for it! 😁

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Funguy77 - 24 Mar, 2025 - 09:19PM

Hay I’m a complete gentleman. It is what it is I’m not here to date or romance anyone or a relationship lol it’s deep hard ruff intense and most importantly good fun had by all with massive smiles all round.

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ExoticOrchid - 24 Mar, 2025 - 03:30PM

Wow romance sure ain't dead ... what a gentleman!!!

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EmnEm123 - 24 Mar, 2025 - 02:55PM

Funguy77

Don't sugar coat it! 😜😂

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Funguy77 - 24 Mar, 2025 - 02:44PM

By the way I re joined on Thursday last week had a chat with a lovely lady we agreed to meet on the Friday just to say hi and confirm we are genuine we then meet for coon sat afternoon then f@@ked the s@@t out each other by 4pm and agreed to see each other more

That’s how it’s done 👍😛

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Imagine this… - 24 Mar, 2025 - 01:10PM

4 meets? Well you can certainly give me some tips on messaging as I’m on zero…so you are doing far better than me pal ;)

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Funguy77 - 23 Mar, 2025 - 03:17PM

Everyone makes basic mistakes in the beginning. We are all guilty of talking about ourselves as we all think our lives and we matter but in reality no you F@@g don’t lol . It’s the sad truth make peace with it then you can move on and grow as a person. Try listening then you may find common ground and interest and respect. Or just keep it to just sex after all that’s why we are here. Don’t lie you know it’s true.

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EmnEm123 - 23 Mar, 2025 - 02:19PM

If you get to a second meet with four people and are ghosted by them all them all you must be doing something wrong.

For me that could be bitching and whining about your partner, no-one wants to hear it, it's hardly conducive to having a good time.

Keep it light, it's just a couple of dates, no-one needs to know every single detail about you at that point.

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Horny Paul 768 - 23 Mar, 2025 - 01:59PM

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