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restless1 - 01 Feb, 2025 - 06:45PM

It's all part of the modern dating experience. Even getting dumped something to be grateful for apparently.

xxmjxx - 31 Jan, 2025 - 06:37PM

Generally there’s always going to be different factors and not always a you thing that’s not led to a second date. Ghosting isn’t great but as we get older, it’s apparently easily done for many people but I would jut take it personally. Treating things casually is great but also maybe look into what you’re doing that is not leading to a second date. Were you pushy? Were you talking over them? Manners? Etc…it can be something small and considering people are risking things enough they want to be sure you’re worth it.

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Teacher1956 - 28 Jan, 2025 - 07:49AM

Don’t come across as needy or put pressure on the other person. These are essentially. casual relationships that last as long as they last. Treat them casually.

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Here we go 693 - 27 Jan, 2025 - 11:14AM

CC You're totally on the money there. I'm sure it's not just the men on the site that get rejected multiple times. It's all just part and parcel of how it works. If you went into a pub or bad, you wouldn't expect to suddenly be set upon be the opposite sex (well some people might, but I'm afraid you're dillusional!).

Clickable Connection - 27 Jan, 2025 - 09:19AM

First up , and sorry if this sounds harsh - I think generally you need to come at this knowing you'll be rejected more times than not - accept this and move on.

I don't condone ghosting at all , I think if you go on a date and it's not for you , just have the courage to say so.

Agree with Unhappyhousewife1 - there could be many factors at play -

- they could be newbies , so the nerves or guilt thing sets in
- perhaps the conversation didn't flow as well as you thought ?
- perhaps your photos didn't represent who you are ?
- perhaps they just didn't feel the spark 🤷‍♂️

I wouldn't take it personally, you are never going to be every womens cuppa tea. Just carry on being yourself and the right person will come I'm sure.

Pick yourself up and move on , it's in the past. Good luck 👍

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Unhappyhousewife1 - 26 Jan, 2025 - 12:38PM

I'm thinking maybe some females meet and perhaps they regret it or feel nervous?
Have these women met others before or was this there first time meeting someone other than there spouse ? Alot of factors could be at play

Doubleohseven - 26 Jan, 2025 - 11:49AM

Obviously, do not be yourself.

Scrappymog - 25 Jan, 2025 - 10:01PM

Definitely not smartypants. Maybe get a duck, then ask if she “wants to see a duck pic?” Or..
“can I send you a duck pick?”
“Do you want to walk my duck with me one morning?”
Much better.

smartypants12345 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 08:24PM

Don’t show them your d*ick in the restaurant

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LucaBG - 25 Jan, 2025 - 02:07PM

Just be yourself - sincerity brings the best matches in life