When will I see you again?
I have met 4 beautiful ladies in the past few months since joining IE. I enjoyed all my meets enough to have a second date but have subsequently been ghosted and rejected by all of them. I have another first meet arranged next week. What can I do to increase my chances of a second meet and hopefully a longer term IE?
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1408586 - 16 Jul, 2024 - 01:50PM
Agree with the natural progression comment. During our second meet we got our diaries out towards the end to plan the date for our third. And made out like teenagers 😂 (sorry tmi!)
I think if after a second meet you’re not sure if the other person wants to meet again that’s probably not a good sign!
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rarity23 - 16 Jul, 2024 - 01:39PM
After a first date, I ask if they would like to meet again, if the answer is mutually yes, a kiss would naturally follow
After a second date and if progressing, I might suggest a third, or see how they feel about a hotel date.
It should just be a natural follow on.......ask for feedback if you're not seeming to get anywhere
Hope this helps you OP
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ExoticOrchid - 16 Jul, 2024 - 09:50AM
Jonnydieppe - 07:11PM
So you're stuck at Amber and not had the green light ... 🤔
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Enigma.. - 16 Jul, 2024 - 09:04AM
Unfortunately there is no way of knowing, before a date, how that date is going to pan out.
You might have thought the date went well but the other person might think differently.
Even a second date is no guarantee of leading to anything further.
But it is rude of the ladies not to have messaged you with a reason why they don’t wish to see you again.
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Happyhooker27 - 15 Jul, 2024 - 11:23PM
It takes nothing to be nice and if you don’t fancy them just say,
You can say there is no spark but don’t crush them or ghost them you don’t like it when it’s done to you.
I have never used the video chat feature,
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Funguy77 - 15 Jul, 2024 - 08:08PM
@ Beckysharp - 15 Jul, 2024 - 07:31PM
All you south of the border have more options than us up in the wilderness lol Edinburgh only has a population of 500K and Scotland max 5 million lol what’s London like 9 million I can only dream of the opportunity .
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1408586 - 15 Jul, 2024 - 07:31PM
He’s very likely London/SE
Jonnydieppe - 15 Jul, 2024 - 07:11PM
How!! I’ve yet to get anyone to get past my first few messages 😂
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