Comments (51)

1638055 - 17 Jan, 2024 - 10:37AM

You can let me know no luck at my end!!

Antinomy51 - 17 Jan, 2024 - 08:47AM

Well I guess between Giddy Hamster and Eliza Boo I've just recieved the best advice ever for someone very new to this enterprise. Thank you.

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Eliza Boo - 15 Jan, 2024 - 04:36PM

Listen to this wise woman !!!!

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1447655 - 15 Jan, 2024 - 04:36PM

Don't send a clearly generic message out to all women. You're wasting your money. Its obvious and most women see the lack of effort and yet desperation as a bit insulting. Target the profiles you want to connect with specifically. Mention what it is in particular that draws you to their profile. Women appreciate the attentiveness of a man that singles them out as worthy of special treatment.

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1643888 - 15 Jan, 2024 - 04:34PM

Hi, I’m brand new too!! Well age wise I’m past it but to this site new. Any advice from anyone?

marklondonengland - 15 Jan, 2024 - 01:45PM

It's kind of tiring to read this kind of question. What do you expect people to say? Act like an idiot to attract attention? Just be yourself and ask about the other person's profile and interests... show that you have read their profile.

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giggly hamster - 15 Jan, 2024 - 01:40PM

Be yourself. It'll kick you in the nuts unless you're billy big nuts alpha grande fromage but it'll end in disappointment if you don't.

Don't carpet bomb the same copy paste message either - it's lazy, and has has been said below, you my friend will have to get used to your chances of being noticed the same as be like trying to pick you out in a football stadium by someone with cataracts in both eyes.

Oh and there’s nothing new you can do or say - a lot of the women who are carbon based life forms on here have been round the block with messages enough to have seen it all, done it all and nothing surprises them - so don't try. Their BS filters are turned up to 11, they'll eat you alive and wear your nuts for earrings

Other than that... enjoy the silence! as the Mode would say.

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LadyDe - 15 Jan, 2024 - 09:28AM

Personally I like them to come across as confident but not arrogant.. funny but not cheesy… flattery but not sickly …

There you go, that’s officially not helped a single man 🤣

But just be yourself, you can’t fake that connection, it’s there or it’s not … good luck and remember to have fun and be fun

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Catherine - 15 Jan, 2024 - 09:10AM

Be yourself

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1584380 - 05 Jan, 2024 - 08:26PM

I think you just have to be yourself - putting on an act will only end disaster (speaking as if I'm an expert lol)

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