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Admirer777 - 03 Jan, 2024 - 04:46PM

Be yourself and dont take any rejection personally - being polite is a good way to communicate so yes that makes sense in my opinion.

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Toffee.macchiato4 - 03 Jan, 2024 - 03:45PM

Hello OP
Welcome to ie 😊
Am not sure am in the position to give much advice
I will say though ie can be difficult for men and women for varying reasons but it’s important to approach it all with positive energy 🙂
Try not to come at anyone in an abrasive or cantankerous way. Negative vibes do nothing for you or the person you’re aiming to entice.
Now that said I hope 🤞 you have a fantastic time here
Stay chilled 😎

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1586130 - 03 Jan, 2024 - 12:19PM

Assuming you're a man, in my experience it pays off to write a message that shows you have read her profile. It also pays off to be braced for a LOT of rejection.
Be aware that the deck is heavily stacked against you. If you get three responses for every 100 messages you send, you're doing well. For every 5 responses, maybe one will develop into a conversation. For every three conversations, maybe one will lead to an actual first date. Success is a numbers game.

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20jamied20 - 31 Dec, 2023 - 02:58PM

Hi everyone, totally new to this. All advice gratefully received

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olddog70 - 29 Dec, 2023 - 08:39PM

I had a lady post me a message that only said she likes her pussy eaten from time to time. That certainly started a chat. It hasn't finished yet either!!😁

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1635363 - 26 Dec, 2023 - 11:58PM

First time chatting might attract one but not the other. When you click you click

Life is a beach - 25 Dec, 2023 - 01:17AM

Been here for 6 months heard of some disasters. I am not a pro by any means.
My advice to a newbie would be to get chatting, meet them in a public place first.
Meeting in public first saved me from a rubbish man who was not considerate enough to appreciate me taking time off! So bad that arranged second date, he had forgotten and didn't care about my time. Don't put up with that! I didn't!
There is a silver lining, my now IE just seemed lovely on chat, was so natural. I told him I was with someone , he was with some woman then too. Luckily neither worked out. We have now been together a few months.
My advice to you, work people out in chatting, meet them in public first, take it from there

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Delicious Chaos - 23 Dec, 2023 - 01:26PM

Hot Rod

I’m intrigued to know why and how long it took you to come up with your username? I’m guessing it’s nothing to do with fishing!

No 1 rule don’t have a crass, cheesy or crude username. You will get binned at the first hurdle

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ExoticOrchid - 22 Dec, 2023 - 05:32PM

Hotrod1973 - 11:21PM

You could start by reading the various threads here on the Forum ... 🤷🏻‍♀️

Son Of Loki - 22 Dec, 2023 - 10:33AM

Hotrod

My tip;
Change your name.

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