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ExoticOrchid - 02 Apr, 2025 - 10:17AM

J20hn1 - 12:55AM

I think that was just her polite way of saying she wasn't attracted by what she saw.

Just be glad she gave you a reason and didn't just blocked you ... most men here say that's usually what happens. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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J20hn1 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 12:55AM

I agree with the question. How can anyone know what a person is like without a meeting.
I have a situation where a chat was on going and she asked for a photo. That's OK.
Then after giving my pw she says "I'm not really feeling a connection. Can anyone tell me how someone can or can not feel a connection from just one photo? Maybe it's a guy thing that I don't get it but I thought it was the guys who relied so much on appearance not the girls. ??

Here we go 693 - 01 Apr, 2025 - 01:12PM

Funguy77

You're overthinking it.

You will I'm sure meet someone, if you haven't already, and have a great time. But when you meet someone with whom everything just falls into place, you'll know it. You might want to identify it as love, I guess that's up to you. I had it with my last affair and yes, that's what I'm looking for because it felt amazing. Will I find it, who knows?

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Funguy77 - 01 Apr, 2025 - 12:18PM

Is it just me who’s not understanding what “Connection” means. Am I thinking about it in the wrong context or just simply over thinking it . When I read I’m looking for a deep or deeper connection this makes me think there looking for a replacement or a to fall in love.

Have I been wrong am I throwing up walls and being graded for no reason or am I just the typical man who just doesn’t get it ?

Purple dreamer - 01 Apr, 2025 - 07:24AM

Totally get what you are saying connection is more than how someone looks

LadyDe - 31 Mar, 2025 - 12:23PM

@Paula 99

It’s a shame we can’t contact the girls on the group or I would share with you 😢

Here we go 693 - 31 Mar, 2025 - 08:49AM

LadyDe I hear you loud and clear. My last IE was an amazing experience. It leaves me with exactly the same dilemma, will I find it or not.
I'm back here so I guess I believe there is even though there seems to be slim pickings... Hope remains...

KerryElizabeth - 31 Mar, 2025 - 07:28AM

For me, the connection can start at the first message, if it piques my interest. This can then build over time with further messages, especially with shared interests and easy flowing conversation.
It's happened at different rates when it has happened with various guys I've chatted to, and it's a feeling of being comfortable with someone and being able to share more than surface details.
I prefer to build this connection ideally before swapping passwords, so a guy gets to know me rather than just judging on my looks alone.
If the online connection is really good, it makes me more likely to meet in person. A personal connection can then evolve from meeting face to face, although it doesn't always.

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Paula99 - 30 Mar, 2025 - 08:00PM

LadyDe …

Why did it end …if you don’t mind me asking ?

As far as do you get back on the horse …you will know in your own time .

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LadyDe - 30 Mar, 2025 - 06:27PM

I had the perfect connection for me … my last IE had it down to point with comms and excitement/anticipation between meets. Sex was perfect and his refractory period for a man in his 60s was insane .. the question is .. will I ever get it again ? Or I need to take each person as an individual… but there lies the problem 😔

I’m trying but maybe I’m too soon out the stalls ..

IE forum do I jump back on the horse (excuse the pun) or take time ?

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