Connection
What is this elusive 'connection' everyone is looking for? Someone I chatted to, just on messages, seemed to believe we had a 'connection' because we were messaging! Connection for me is something only found in its real sense on meeting.
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1529050 - 27 Oct, 2023 - 09:22AM
I agree with Becky, before I agree to meet anyone I need to get to know a bit about them first, and to see if there is that connection. Otherwise why would we waste time and meet.
I think quite early on with messages you can see if you have things in common, if you are on the same wavelength, both looking for the same thing and I think you can get the gist of that over messages, and then this can be confirmed or dismissed once you meet.
As Becky said the true connection will come only after you meet.
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1408586 - 27 Oct, 2023 - 08:57AM
Absolutely a true connection is only found by getting to know someone over time in person. I would however only meet someone who I felt some form of connection with over messaging first. I think it’s easy to rule out those who I would never be able to form a genuine connection with and therefore no point in meeting for a drink like this.
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