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ExoticOrchid - 18 Apr, 2023 - 07:51PM

C180 - 07:14PM

It can and it does if the single isn't looking for a spouse. 😊

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1590175 - 18 Apr, 2023 - 07:14PM

Lord Flashheart

It all sounds lovely and exciting for you right now and thats great, but its the phrase that you are free to do as you please and she isn't. Be very careful as you are in very different
situations which could create their own set of problems and resentment further down the line. She is way more restricted than you and you may start to resent that. I just dont know if single people having an affair with a married/attached person would work very well in the long run?

1587581 - 18 Apr, 2023 - 06:28PM

Each will have its own dynamic. If you're lucky and really hit it off with someone you just won't be able to get enough of each other....that's a whole lot of fun in it's own right...the messages and flirting.

I'm free to do as I please though but my IE isn't. I understand this and I allow her to drive the messaging in her time frame.

You just figure out what works for each of you.

Lack of communication though can be depressing, frustrating, unpleasant....add your own word here......at which point you ask yourself why you're doing this....it should fun.

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ZRicky - 18 Apr, 2023 - 05:25AM

At first I’d say daily chit chat comes naturally, if there’s not that regular rhythm of conversation I struggle to believe there will be much of a spark as those early days should just be easy and flowing

Down the line I’d expect that to slow down a little, but certainly not over a week between contacts

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Redfirefox - 14 Apr, 2023 - 10:03PM

@dirtydancing.
Id agree a couple a day. However if there’s no contact after 2 days or so I lose interest and presume they’re not interested. Too many messages a day and they can be too eager. A happy medium would be nice. But I’m afraid men need to take notice too. Give me my space. Stalking is not a good look.

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1582640 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 06:39PM

Fluffy
A date with me; cabbage soup

1447655 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 01:28PM

I think like Paula said, it depends on the relationship. Personally I love feeling close tomy i.e and lots of contact, from silliness to weather, from stories of life to hours and hours sexting. But would I feel that about someone else? I genuinely don't know...if they bored me but were a great shag, I may just have contact to make arrangements for that! 🤣 But if actually like someone, I wanna go deep...

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Cheesypuff - 14 Apr, 2023 - 12:40PM

Depends which one it is and how much I think they need to keep them sweet.

FluffyClouds - 14 Apr, 2023 - 12:11PM

WillKr - 14 Apr, 2023 - 08:28AM

I get a bit weirded-out if constant ‘how are you’. It’s like ‘mmm, the same as 3 hours ago’!

Maybe it's the cabbage soup repeating.

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1529050 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 11:17AM

MrGuy83 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 10:09AM

Yeah I like contact but def don't need or do daily (I could) but I like the thrill of ooo here's a message rather than it being expected, but I know others do want that daily contact