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MrGuy83 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 10:09AM

@Dotty Green

If possible, obviously we all have lifes and other priorities so it might not quite be 100%

1558647 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 10:05AM

Hi, well for someone who has been on the site a while I would suggest daily messages are good not every five minutes but a couple a day just checking in to say hi and some great banter is good. Don't keep your phone by your side checking every five minutes this isn't a normal relationship folks ladies especially take note !

1529050 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 09:32AM

MrGuy83 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 09:20AM

Do you keep up that level of contact as time goes on ?

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MrGuy83 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 09:20AM

In the past it's been most nights, especially at first when there's lots of chemistry building up

1582640 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 08:28AM

I get a bit weirded-out if constant ‘how are you’. It’s like ‘mmm, the same as 3 hours ago’!

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1590856 - 13 Apr, 2023 - 04:22PM

Doesn’t take long to to say hello or how are you. I think daily is appropriate. Also depends on the person you are. If you genuinely care about your IE you’ll make the effort in my opinion

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1536854 - 13 Apr, 2023 - 11:41AM

Having had a distant purely physical affair, and an overwhelmingly mental and physical affair with deeper meaning that was all encompassing.
It totally depends on the person you’re with . He or she may not want what you want . Best to discuss this early and let it evolve naturally .
When I really like a piece of music the last thing I want to do is listen to it over and over .!
Some things are worth savouring and IMO familiarity breeds contempt both ways !!!!!!!!

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1529050 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 08:36PM

Intergalactic - 12 Apr, 2023 - 07:51PM

I think if you get involved in the good morning and good night messsges you are in danger of putting your IE before your real life ….

I love cheeky messages they make me smile put me in a good mood … however my life is my priority not my IE he’s a lovely secret decadent escape. So whilst I like comms between meets it’s not a priority for me.

When I started out on this journey I used to think differently so I understand the need from some for regular/daily messages ….

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1593059 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 08:35PM

I like lots of contact, I like to know I'm on their mind. I also accept not everyone is the same and so would only 'match' with like-minded people I guess!

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TheBoredHousewife - 12 Apr, 2023 - 08:24PM

Intergalactic - 12 Apr, 2023 - 07:51PM

Absolutely the goodnight/good morning message does me. It’s very telling if someone into you, or maybe not so much.

It doesn’t have to be 24/7 contact, but as you say, on a typical day, it really doesn’t take much to ‘check in’

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