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Sandypops - 09 Sep, 2023 - 04:29PM

Too close can create complications of being seen. Too far can make meeting more difficult.
Personally, it would depend on each circumstances. I like to meet regularly, and I like nothing more than an impromptu 'what are you doing today, let's meet' but I wouldn't discount less regular meeting if the connection was strong enough and the chat was regular in between.
It's what works for each affair.

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Sandypops - 09 Sep, 2023 - 04:24PM

Sammi468.
"It certainly cuts down on your time together.
I have done the 1hour 30 min journey and I started to feel the trip was not worth it, and as it happened it wasn't!"

Harsh 😳 I wonder if they felt the same, hence leaving you to do the travelling 😂

Johnnylondon - 09 Sep, 2023 - 01:18PM

I had an affair with a girl in another country last year. It worked well for us. She was living where my head office was based and I had to travel there once every 4-6 weeks. I had offices in other areas fairly close too so sometimes we would take a little road trip. In between meets we would have good chats and work out the next meet. Only downside is that it had to stop when I moved jobs but we still keep in touch.
So I guess it depends on the circumstances. If it works for you then it works as long as it doesn't just work for one person then it's all good IMO

Smiler91863 - 09 Sep, 2023 - 11:37AM

For me, it’s difficult to believe things are real until they’re right in front of me. So a connection needs to be confirmed over a coffee / beer first. I wouldn’t want to drive over 30 minutes ideally for that first meeting. Is that too limiting?

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boav91 - 09 Sep, 2023 - 10:48AM

I had wondered about trying to contact people further away, especially if I travel there sometime for work, but tend to stick to inmidiate neighbouring counties. I don’t need to see the person ever week or every months although that would be nice. In fact some separation, as others say, keeps the anticipation as long as there is contact in between. Too far just makes it complex . Having said that I did try with someone who lived in the US so I guess that was some distance 🙄

Funnily enough did not quite work out for regular meets

chris19389 - 03 Apr, 2023 - 10:02PM

@lorelai I just want to give you a big hug, being distant from your lover is a tough thing to bear x

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1494077 - 03 Apr, 2023 - 07:37PM

Quixotic - 03 Apr, 2023 - 12:52PM
Thanks!
Right now it looks only like a call from Ghost.

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1588499 - 03 Apr, 2023 - 12:52PM

TBH - let's hope that phone starts going 🤞🏼

1494077 - 03 Apr, 2023 - 11:50AM

Quixotic - 03 Apr, 2023 - 12:02AM

Blue skies over the next couple of days predicted. Pity I’m stuck looking at four walls and computer screens. Would really rather be out in the fresh air somewhere ☀️🕶️⛰️

1588499 - 03 Apr, 2023 - 12:02AM

The weather keeps us well watered, TBH. Just like all you irresistible southern ladies 😉

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