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Distance & IEs

How do you feel about the distance between you and a potential IE? For example, I receive messages from men who live in other parts of the country but travel with work to my area. Personally, it makes me feel like they're looking for a hook up in every port they travel to. Is it better that they live in your county or the next? Can an affair be better and more fulfilling the nearer the person lives?

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Enigma.. - 19 Sep, 2023 - 08:49AM

Believe it or not…
I’m actually having better conversations and more stimulating conversations, on the site, with gent’s who live down south.
Yes…. We shall never meet up due to distance.
But…. I do enjoy good banter and intelligent conversation.
😃😉❤️

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Enigma.. - 19 Sep, 2023 - 08:45AM

@tarnished knight…

Thank you for your kind offer sir.

But alas I live over 4 hours away from your good self.

☹️😊💋


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ExoticOrchid - 18 Sep, 2023 - 06:04PM

DMB - 12:11PM

Many are trying to be discreet about their location and don't want to advertise where exactly they live ... people seem to forget that tiny little fact!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️

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1296520 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 01:35PM

I would only be interested in meeting someone within 90 mins drive, otherwise I just dont think we would meet very often!


DefinitelyMightBe - 18 Sep, 2023 - 12:11PM

I don’t think IEs system is completely accurate when it comes to postcodes too though. Seems to default to the nearest city with some postcodes which can be a fair bit away from that city.

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1575958 - 16 Sep, 2023 - 10:20PM

#Enigma- I'm no where near Glasgow,but if you end up looking near the north east, drop me a line, I may just take the bait....lol


Paula99 - 16 Sep, 2023 - 06:21PM

Meeting an old lover is like trying on a pair of comfy slippers …you never forget and surprisingly how quickly it all comes flooding back..especially if your relationship was long term..the emotions can be high…😘

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1574142 - 16 Sep, 2023 - 02:58PM

I had a very long affair with someone who lived nearby. The person then moved abroad After 2 years they came home for a visit and we met up. Amazing how it was still there.


Mellen1974 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 08:26PM

I enjoy going a distance to have a meet ... Knowing what I'm driving away from home to do and also be somewhere I can relax enough in someone elses company to not be recognized. To book a hotel room to get showered and pampered and dress in something sexy for the arrival of the man invited. Eager for his touch and kiss ... Distance from home helps get my head into the space of enjoying making my fantasy real. 😜

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Enigma.. - 11 Sep, 2023 - 10:35PM

I get messages through from males who have as their location “Glasgow”.
So we start messaging on the site and I quickly discover that they don’t actually live in Glasgow but miles away from the city.
I’ve asked several of these males why put Glasgow as their location when they actually don’t live there?
It’s always the same answer.
Lack of or no active females anywhere near them.
I find I am having to cast my net wider, county wise, to find someone suitable.
At this rate…. If I look any further north I’ll be fishing about the North Sea.
Any further south I’ll be over the border.
I’d put lol after both those sentences but, unfortunately, it’s no longer funny.

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