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Distance and how to get a reply?

I live in the far tip of Cornwall
Tried every website and app known to man for the last 4 years
There’s just no one local to me
Apart from the obvious answer of to move
What can I do to attract someone?
Post Covid everyone wants to buy a house in cornwall and Devon
But why does no one seem to want to date?

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1483842 - 18 Mar, 2023 - 04:50PM

Hottie Spicy - 18 Mar, 2023 - 03:51PM

And you are right. He doesn't live me like he did. But, he loves the fact that I love him.

Regardless of broken promises.

I worship the ground he walks on. As he does me. But, for different reasons.

Your comment was meant cruelly. Yes, it hurt and i desperately wanted to retaliate but, there's truth in it. I winder what you hoped to accomplish by being cruel?

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1483842 - 18 Mar, 2023 - 04:01PM

Hottie Spicy - 18 Mar, 2023 - 03:51PM

Only just beginning to understand? Late developer right there.

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1586130 - 18 Mar, 2023 - 03:51PM

Miss Chief, I'm beginning to understand why your man doesn't love you any more.

You be you , sista 🤣🤣🤣


1586130 - 18 Mar, 2023 - 03:44PM

Beccack, the character limit prevented you from completing your final stab, which I'm sure would have been awwwsome to read 😂

But I'd take a guess that the only "bad boy" you really want is the one you think you can change - that particular female trait is VERY common amongst teenagers. Not so much in grownups.


Delicious Chaos - 17 Mar, 2023 - 11:36AM

Miss Chief, let’s do coffee
Loving your style girl 😊

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1483842 - 16 Mar, 2023 - 09:44PM

Saint_David - 16 Mar, 2023 - 08:43PM

First impression is first impression you man. Wrap it up however you like. Self depreciation has never been an attractive quality to me.

Being clear is crucial.

Glad you have distinguished the difference
between the real world and the real world.

Us females may be from Venus darling, but, we will eat you for breakfast in the real real world

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Saint_David - 16 Mar, 2023 - 08:43PM

Yes Miss_C, maybe I wasn't being clear.... The sea of smoke, mirrors and deceit are all for the real world, and on which we sail the waves aboard the good ship IE. I've always conducted any affairs with honesty from the outset, otherwise they'd never have lasted and were always a place where I found relief from the maze of real world fabrications that were needed in order that the affair could happen.
I'll be more careful with my metaphors next time!




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Delicious Chaos - 16 Mar, 2023 - 07:33PM

Miss Chief 😆 you go girl. Couldn’t agree more

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1483842 - 16 Mar, 2023 - 07:20PM

Saint_David - 16 Mar, 2023 - 05:23PM

The sea of smoke mirrors and deceit may apply in ones marriage but, not in any encounter thats developed into an affair for me. I think it's your lack of total honesty that doesn't get you someone like me and ends you in this predicament. We can have the best of both worlds, as long as you adopt honesty in at least one of them


Beccak - 16 Mar, 2023 - 07:17PM

Hottie Spicy

I will hold my hand-up to seeking a bad boy. An affair for me is a big step so you’re damn right the reward for this risk must be high.
Keep in mind women may have a Mr Average at home and thus they don’t want another as an affair.

I know from my single freinds how they swipe rapidly past 95%+ of guys, like passing along a stand full of dresses until one grabs us.

We need that instant wow that makes us pulse, we wont likely get it browsing online from a guy with an average look / body.

Those who say looks aren’t important are 100% deluded. We evolved to spot attractive traits within milliseconds. Online exaggerates this, looking through guys is like flicking through a recipe book until a dish grabs you.

Many guys on here talk about how nice they are, but I’m not moved by descriptiora like nice / average / ordinary, makes him sound a bit wimpy and dusty.

I just checked your profile which opens with you describing as a luvvie.
Call me a cow but what woman would be arou

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