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1447655 - 30 Sep, 2022 - 11:03PM

Beach is my perfect date. Any season any weather! Dinner - no! I like to stay hungry!

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1550864 - 30 Sep, 2022 - 10:53PM

Dinner and wine, followed by chatting on the sofa to soft music with only candlelight. Then soft kissing, sensual, feeling the other person and the excitement so often missing from our other lives.

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Milkybarkid192 - 28 Sep, 2022 - 09:53AM

Getting down and dirty in a seedy hotel followed by a fish and chip supper.

Bobb20 - 27 Sep, 2022 - 09:38PM

…did someone mention beach :-)
I also think beach strolls are awesome. I’m the summer it is amazing to walk along the waters edge, dancing in and out of the gentle waves and have a laugh; whilst in the winter, it feels so invigorating to wrap up warm and watch waves crash down the shoreline (from a distance - I’m not sticking my toes into freezing water let alone any other part of me). Of course finding the perfect coffee shop to huddle into to warm up afterwards is part and parcel of the day). 👍🏻

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FireGarden - 24 Sep, 2022 - 09:31PM

A walk along the beach would be lovely, but given how fickle our amazing weather is, I can but dream!!!

In which case, the traditional rendezvous in a restaurant or quiet pub wins hands-down - it's just a great atmosphere for conversation and most of all chemistry, the latter which is really hard to detect in the usual texting and other digital forms of communication (nostalgia for the phone call, gosh I am beginning to sound like a dinosaur!).

I've never been too keen on lunches by the way. After the hustle and bustle of getting to the venue then having to return to the office, you're left with only around half an hour, which does seem rushed :(

freshair200 - 23 Sep, 2022 - 12:37PM

Lunch together is a good starter, a menu to discuss as a conversation starter, a glass of wine, and if there's no connection it's easy to say goodbye and walk away.

Quietly_Yours - 21 Sep, 2022 - 10:34AM

I think a nice public country walk (not in your area generally) is a great icebreaker, grab a coffee, get to know each other and see if there's a spark, without having to awkwardly eat or stare into each other's eyes across a dinner table. Your surroundings also give you something new to talk about if you don't know each other that well :-)

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anna_banana - 19 Sep, 2022 - 10:26PM

I get full glam for me not for anyone else ....

I personally find a meal on the first meet a bit pressurising and prefer a drink or coffee and then a longer more relaxed meeting second time out.

However you and I appear to have a different concept of what we are looking for here.

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anna_banana - 19 Sep, 2022 - 10:26PM

if you can't take me out, and find time to take me out for a meal, then why i should even bother to spend time and get myself full glam for a meeting?

:)

Paula99 - 18 Sep, 2022 - 02:26PM

DonnyD..

They must have seen you cuming...🤣🤣...couple of nasty birds..

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