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1575033 - 23 Oct, 2023 - 10:09PM

Abfabs, Kestrals, Vanilla Alternative, Route 69, Our Place for fun, Chameleons, Jaydees.
Kestrals and Chameleons open daytimes, others some daytimes.
Such clubs suit some liaisons/relationships, not all.

Cheesypuff - 21 Oct, 2023 - 09:00PM

QueenLilith - 21 Oct, 2023 - 07:15PM

No need to spoil me, although it would be appreciated and reciprocated. And yes, if I ask you to dinner, I would expect to pay. But generally speaking, in an affair, I expect to be relatively equal, financially, emotionally and physically. If we are not equal enough, then it won't work for me, not long term.
No biology hasn't changed, but social constructs have, thankfully.
I have to shave, I wear expensive underwear, no I don't wear expensive makeup, but women don't have to either, that's their choice. I don't expect, or want equality in everything, but I also object to using ones sex as a reason for privilaged treatment.

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QueenLilith - 21 Oct, 2023 - 07:15PM

I think there are so many ways to spoil a man from little gifts to thoughtful things. If a man asks me out for dinner I’d let them pay for it. It would kind of spoil things if I had to spend a fortune on myself and then treat the man to a dinner too! 😅🤣 perhaps old fashioned but biology hasn’t changed since decades ago and will never change. Whenever, men have to shave and wear expensive underwear and make up then I’ll see things as totally equal 🤷🏻‍♀️

Cheesypuff - 21 Oct, 2023 - 06:41PM

Monica gets it

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Cheesypuff - 21 Oct, 2023 - 06:40PM

BlueEyesM - 19 Oct, 2023 - 09:31PM

Sounds a bit sexist #justsaying

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Monicas55 - 20 Oct, 2023 - 09:36PM

50-50 split I reckon

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ExoticOrchid - 20 Oct, 2023 - 03:39PM

TBH - 08:26AM

I was thinking the same thing ... 🤔 🤣

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TheBoredHousewife - 20 Oct, 2023 - 08:26AM

BlueEyesM - 19 Oct, 2023 - 09:31PM

Your IE inbox is going to be flooded real soon 😁

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mipaulac - 20 Oct, 2023 - 12:51AM

If a meet or relationship is only initiated when one side is expected to pay for the other it's certainly not platonic it's preconditions to a transaction.
In so many aspects of business and social interactions its deemed unethical unequible and illegal, because it taints and prejudices the relationship.
If there's no offer to share costs you've found a grifter.

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BlueEyesM - 19 Oct, 2023 - 09:31PM

My view, the man pays for everything and it’s not a £40 travel dodge, any meeting should be top class and meeting the ladies expectations and more, add in a few spontaneous pieces such as bubbles, a suite etc.

Make it feel like it should, amazing and what you don’t have at home but dream of.

Just my thinking, that’s all… well my practice.

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