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Zayn98 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 05:13PM

I’m in the same boat, but I’m confident I could make it work, happy to chat with anyone willing to help me out ;)

1645868 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 03:15PM

@giggly hamster
That’s made my day lol 😂
Wow you had a lucky escape by the sounds of that then

giggly hamster - 28 Jan, 2024 - 02:01PM

@utopia
absolutely. there was one lady I found myself with who was not only fifty shades of treehouse bonkers, but also I clearly had my eyeballs and my testicles painted on. I'm no oil painting, but jesus H corbitt on a lettuce leaf.

God knows what I was doing, and god knows what I was thinking - well, I wasn't that's the problem, due to aformentioned painted on testicles and eyeballs.

Needless to say I reprimanded myself severely for that one, many words with myself were had, and when the wider then links forum community back in the day found out who it was i jut got told by one of them "Really...!!! , I mean ... Really? what were you thinking?!? " says it all.

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Secret_fun2020 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 01:43PM

You never know that this is right for you until you do it. I always thought I'd have trouble with guilt, but I found that wasn't the case

1645868 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 12:56PM

Has anyone done said deed and then regretted ir ? I wonder what the majority leans towards regret or happiness

giggly hamster - 28 Jan, 2024 - 12:46PM

put simply, you won't until you close your eyes and step off the cliff.

everyone here has been in that position, and everyone has felt the way you do, and everyone has taken that step that they can't turn back from once you've done it.

If it's not right for either of you then chances are by next morning or that afternoon you'll just want to go home and forget anyof it ever happenned. if it is right for you, you'll already be thinking of the next time you see them.

Only two of you know what went on, and only two of you have to live with it.
Don't underestimate just how big a thing you're about to plunge into, so you're allowed to pull the parachute cord if you want to.

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1586130 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 12:28PM

This post is 4 years old now. I wonder if the OP is still undecided

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Paula99 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 11:41AM

The Maestro…

Both sexes are guilty of that ..👍

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TheMaestro - 28 Jan, 2024 - 11:02AM

It's a big decision and I have met ladies who seemed keen on first meeting but then decided it wasn't for them.

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1639246 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 10:29AM

You could always say “bloody hell, let’s go back to my place and deal with it in the morning“
(quote from a young lady to me when I was regular dating….and being the unsure gentleman coming out of the pub)
Ha ha…not very helpful I know, but it’s still one of my favourite quotes.