How do you know?
Hi,
I am iffing and umming about taking the plunge and having an affair. I've met someone I really like, and now we want to take it to the next level. How can I be sure this is the right thing for me... I've never done anything like this before.
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Trwela - 05 Oct, 2020 - 09:32AM
You are not going to find out if your don't do it. Take it easy and at rate you are comfortable with. That way you will gradually find out about the person you are meeting and you can travel the road together.
Not all work and that will either be because you have met the wrong one or your heart isn't in to it.
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Janice630 - 03 Oct, 2020 - 10:27PM
Go for it you'll never know if it's right unless you take the plunge. I've had several affairs from here even though I have a partner.
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Naughty_at_Knight - 03 Oct, 2020 - 08:09AM
You will never know until you try it. You might find its the best thing to ever happen to you or you might find its not for you but at least you will know.
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1403173 - 03 Oct, 2020 - 07:57AM
Work with the well founded premise that Women give sex to get love while men give love to get sex - it's only once he has had your knickers off that you will find out what he is REALLY like !
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1403173 - 03 Oct, 2020 - 07:48AM
Ask yourself the question - do I have enough friends already ? If the answer is yes then shag him asap ( and find out if he has the required abilities behind closed doors to be worthwhile taking risks for ) ...simples !!
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1412453 - 02 Oct, 2020 - 10:44PM
I know exactly how you feel I’m the same but I’m thinking we only live once and maybe I should take the plunge at least once but I’m terrified that I may not be good enough it will get caught 😢😢
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zebedeedo - 02 Oct, 2020 - 10:38PM
Go for it, but with you eyes open. From experience, many years a go now, an affair has very high highs, but very low lows at times, but the highs win and make it all worthwhile.
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vgrhere - 02 Oct, 2020 - 04:39PM
Well, until you try, you won't know. Just be careful and walk away if it does not feel right. Trust your gut instinct
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1408384 - 02 Oct, 2020 - 03:18PM
Well you wont know until you tried so hey ho best get on with it
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