How do you know?
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I am iffing and umming about taking the plunge and having an affair. I've met someone I really like, and now we want to take it to the next level. How can I be sure this is the right thing for me... I've never done anything like this before.
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beachbodybabe - 10 Oct, 2020 - 07:33PM
Take it very gradually and trust your instinct. Feel safe at all times both physically and mentally. This is like a highly alcoholic drink - addictive and perhaps not to be taken too often. Will give you both highs and lows and you’re not going to have the usual support network to share this with. It’s a commitment you do with yourself and on your own. To me it’s totally worth it. Good luck and enjoy!
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1317379 - 10 Oct, 2020 - 07:33AM
Just remember for every pro...there's a con and alot to lose if it goes tits up
1367490 - 08 Oct, 2020 - 04:34PM
I found you won't know until you've met at least 5 or so times and got all the preliminaries out of the way, just one word of warning though - in the words of Bastille "Don't make promises that you're gonna break, you only ever wanted one thing from this" remember. When you have sex hormones are released which make you fall in love with the other person. From painful experience make sure you know that otherwise when the other person walks away it can be shattering, otherwise good luck x
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Tallulabelle - 08 Oct, 2020 - 07:45AM
Go with how you feel when you’re together, if it feels right and it is mutual, go for it!
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Long Cast - 08 Oct, 2020 - 12:07AM
It takes time, and confidence. We have to hold back sometimes, and the confidence follows. So, for what it is worth, have fun, but don’t hurt.
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1404714 - 06 Oct, 2020 - 11:49PM
Go for it but take time to get to know each other first - find out what they like, (or dislike) how often you could meet - (safely), their true location. It's all about trust and respect - remember they will be as nervous as you - but isn't it all about the butterflies anyway??
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1412003 - 06 Oct, 2020 - 10:33PM
Perhaps you both should try painting and decorating. I've little experience of such activities and would appreciate your feedback. Just remember to clean your brushes thoroughly afterwards.
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1320953 - 06 Oct, 2020 - 09:24PM
If you aren't sure maybe you shouldn't.
Northern kiss - 06 Oct, 2020 - 12:11PM
Keep it in the moment and remember the reality of the situation. Then just go for it :-)
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Sweetie2020 - 05 Oct, 2020 - 05:34PM
Just have funs lots and sex!
Don’t rush to next level
Enjoy each other company
Enjoy time together 😉👌
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