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1419172 - 09 Nov, 2020 - 02:48PM

I think we’re all here for the same reason. None of us take this decision lightly, but we sometimes reach the point in our lives where we have to take some control for our own well-being. I don’t think it should be just about sex. I think a connection of minds is important, too.

Samsutton - 08 Nov, 2020 - 10:28PM

I don't think you can ever be sure but you've joined here for a reason and met someone you like so sounds like you have been lucky

RumplesBear - 08 Nov, 2020 - 07:31PM

Ermaya

It's general entertaining chitter chatter most the time.

With the odd massive effort by Mike93849e9 (or whatever) asking if any ladies in Liverpool are up for fun.

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Rubins - 08 Nov, 2020 - 05:16PM

Give it a try, just make it as you want it, mainly good sex, do not get too emotional, enjoy.

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phillyd - 08 Nov, 2020 - 04:15PM

Ermaya

It is what this site is for!

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1269284 - 08 Nov, 2020 - 04:06PM

Is this a forum where men concisely nd unilaterally encourage each other to have an affair ? Lol

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Curvy4u - 08 Nov, 2020 - 03:29PM

I’d you’re questioning yourself id say it isn’t the right thing

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JayKay120 - 08 Nov, 2020 - 02:27PM

I think you have to have a certain mentality for having an affair. Being able to rationalise it and compartmentalise the affair so that it doesn't mess with your "real life" is key.

I think that's why it's so hard to find someone to have an affair with. Both have to be in the same head space. Making snap decisions isn't the way and chatting about it may help. Good luck.Jaykay2982

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1389672 - 08 Nov, 2020 - 01:16PM

When I was thinking of having an affair I spoke to a good friend, who I knew had already had several.

He said two things to me that stuck in my mind and in retrospect made sense and were true facts.

1: The women he had affairs with were remarkably like his wife or mother

2: He said ‘Once you step over the line it means you no longer care’

I know we all have different circumstances but I separated soon after.

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Summerbelle - 08 Nov, 2020 - 01:12PM

The only way of knowing if there's any attraction is to meet in real life. Of course that's more difficult at the moment, but even going for a walk will give you an idea to look into someone's eyes and find out whether that chemistry is there or not. Chatting online never gives you anything more than words on a screen which are so easy to build up into something it's not.

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