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boyoboy1965 - 16 Sep, 2020 - 11:08AM

I like to make contact at least once a day, even if only by email, as it is such a pleasure to know that there is someone out there away from the everyday routine that is thinking of you. And, definitely straight after a date, every date, not just the first.

Other than that I tend to be guided by the lady; if they respond quickly then I would too if possible, and some lovely prolonged 'chats' can develop like that.

One of my favourite experiences like that was, remarkably, with a lady I met not here, but through playing 'Words With Friends', flirty/dirty scrabble can be such fun. Not that I recommend WWF for that sort of thing you understand, IE is the best!

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Roxy Gee - 16 Sep, 2020 - 07:16AM

I expect to be contacted straight after a date and every day ti be wooed c Part of the pleasure od ab IE is that feeling go naughtiness in between dates xx

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1408195 - 16 Sep, 2020 - 12:02AM

I love getting a little messafe every day. Even just a morning or a hi!

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gemini2310 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 11:21PM

tea coffee me

They have there mobile with them so can contact straight away lol

tea_coffee_me_ - 15 Sep, 2020 - 11:16PM

"gemini2310 -
If I don't hear from them as soon as I get home from on a first date coffee or lunch I just block them I do not wait 4 days"

I tend to give benefit of doubt and travel time can be longer! .... however, generally have mentally moved on long before then.

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Zara1981 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 11:05PM

Ahhh this is interesting. I tend to follow their lead... if the texting when getting to know somebody is slow I tend to think I’m one of many and withdraw .
I like the feeling of electric in the air with text knowing I’m on their mind far more than I should be !

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gemini2310 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 10:54PM

tea coffee me

If I don't hear from them as soon as I get home from on a first date coffee or lunch I just block them I do not wait 4 days

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tea_coffee_me_ - 15 Sep, 2020 - 10:46PM

Personally I have liked chatter from 'here' to text messaging until after the first few grown up meetings. I say that as I have public meetings first.
Sometimes they have only been 'in office hours', and they message first to know its 'safe'. Minimum I expect is a good morning etc
All of mine have developed into a friendship which is my preference.
I personally like a good rapport especially until we know we are in a relationship .... if then meetings are reduced due to work, family, suspicions, the gold fish ...
As previously stated many of mine have been from people who have worked around the world, and things may have gone quiet, however we have reached a comfortable point ... other times it has given us an easier chance to chat.
I REALLY enjoy the photos n experiences they share.
If it is early days and they go quiet after a first meeting or not heard from for about 4 days plus .... I move on. Many do not have the courage for the 'not quite what I am looking for', so I just take the hint.

gemini2310 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 10:35PM

I also think if one wants exclusive or not which I do if both parties wants lots of different partners then the contact would maybe very little exclusive is a major part to an affair for me and if I didn't hear from him a fair few times in a day it just wouldn't work for me and this would be spoken about from the start so we know where each other stand

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Ha1234 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 09:54PM

@RoseBud

Liked that distinction of different dates. But it doesn't follow that if you been to a hotel that there more to talk about......a simple coffee dates may have given enough topics for a prolonged text dialogue for a week or so. So I would imagine each situation would be different.

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