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1296228 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 09:07PM

Ask the other person and follow there lead xx

1393321 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 08:48PM

Well, it depends on how well she likes you and what sort of dates you've already been on. Coffee dates or hotel dates? If the latter, I think you can text as often as you like, surely she MUST like you as you've been to a hotel. If I like a man he can text many times a day, even if I'm busy, it's always lovely. I may hold back a little in my reply because I deserve to be chased, but I love my man to lead the text tempo.

If its just text chat, and I'm not that connected, and if his texts and prolific i may find that a pressure.

Certainly, an honest chat about expectations is good. For example, if the text messages are free flowing at first but then you get busy with your job or family, I need to know quickly or I will think you've lost interest and I will withdraw.

Hope that helps :-)

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Sera Bellum - 15 Sep, 2020 - 08:17PM

I think it's best to ask and also have a genuine think about what you would want and can manage. Some people have to keep phone messaging brief but can do calls more freely. Best to talk it out to work it out!

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gemini2310 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 07:22PM

Surely that's something the two of you should decided on I have to have contact everyday with iE but we are all different

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DorsetLass89 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 06:59PM

@Ha1234

So you revisit the discussion? I don’t see the issue.

Ha1234 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 06:45PM

@DorsetLass89

Communication is going to be random in this kind of situation.....plus conflicting demands...people may not even know how much Communication they need..... so its be difficult to discuss it beforehand

DorsetLass89 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 06:11PM

I think your title says it all.

Communication.

Ask her, discuss what you’d both like as it’s not just about one person’s needs.

Good luck and have fun :)

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Frustrated housewife - 15 Sep, 2020 - 05:51PM

I just want arrangements for the next fuck

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Polycarbonate - 15 Sep, 2020 - 04:32PM

There are some obligatory staging posts which can't be ignored. The before and after meets. The supportive, empathetic and helpful. The hot calls and the phone sex which can happen.

Otherwise it's just sociable talk, finding out about folk and their ways of life. Some nice shared intimacy and valiant gestures. Whatever keeps the party going.

At least one in depth conversation per week with a few keep in touches around it.

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1395861 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 03:50PM

I completely agree with Exotic Orchid. Whatever you start with, stick with it. I personally would like frequent communication especially if we can only meet every 3 to 4 weeks. Otherwise how can you build up any kind of rappor?

Also if you just want sex chat let it be known very early on. It's not to everyones tastes

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