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TTaylor - 18 Sep, 2020 - 09:42AM

Ask her😆😆

1400267 - 18 Sep, 2020 - 09:30AM

@ cornforthwhite

This would be more like 'how to lose a woman quickly'!

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1389672 - 18 Sep, 2020 - 01:38AM

‘Helena789 - 16 Sep, 2020 - 08:46PM

whenever she tells you to, her rules !!’

Shya right!?! 😂

1389672 - 18 Sep, 2020 - 01:36AM

Ooo what a great question.

Answer: As little as possible at first, or you’ll ruin it. Just message to say how great the shag was you had last night and plan your next date... I mean shag.

Do not text until you meet again. Unless you get a text from your new shag mistress, in which case keep replies short and sweet. It builds excitement as you long for the next adventure. But don’t be a twat, be nice.

Texting usually increases as you get to know one another.

Roxy Gee - 17 Sep, 2020 - 03:11PM

Well you should message straight away to say what a great date you had and ask her how often and what type of comms is best for her and then fall into line with that xx

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1399985 - 16 Sep, 2020 - 11:16PM

It's really interesting to read all these replies, particularly from the other ladies, I like to talk to my IEs most days, but it's not essential, some of the replies here remind me of myself when I was single and dating, a mentality that if they aren't in touch often enough it must mean they aren't that keen or aren't worth the bother. Surely IE sorts of relationship are a little different? If an IE isn't in touch much it may just be because their spouse is keeping watch.

I think establishing what works best for you both is all you can do, dependent on your lifestyles and how suspicious your partners are etc if texting each other non stop increases the risk of getting caught then it's just not worth it.

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1383025 - 16 Sep, 2020 - 09:53PM

Everyone is different I suppose. You need to ask and find your own rhythm. I talk to different people different amounts of time, I like to talk every day but I know that’s not always possible, contact has to be regular though!
1 guy would message me all throughout the day, then suddenly stopped and it was sporadic. We both really liked each other but ultimately the relationship hasn’t survived.
Onwards and upwards!

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Helena789 - 16 Sep, 2020 - 08:46PM

whenever she tells you to, her rules !!

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Chezley - 16 Sep, 2020 - 12:51PM

Some folk are just a bit obsessive with technology and have to feed a habit. Others can be fearful of it and I wonder how they manage.

When it gets to multiple platforms it's too much to deal with for me. I can do it but it just seems silly and can really waste your day.

Comms should settle into something mutual such that neither is inconvenienced and avoids ennui.

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1153079 - 16 Sep, 2020 - 11:24AM

I would agree that it's something to try and discuss, but you can also judge a little bit by the brevity of the replies.

Sometimes we're all busy and a short reply is better than none, but perhaps you need to suggest a time when you can both indulge in a conversation, rather than just a snatched "Hi" and "Bye"?