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1690542 - 20 Sep, 2024 - 04:32PM

Should you or should you not include pics password in the first message?

Cecil1980 - 19 Sep, 2024 - 09:10PM

Just be yourself…..simple things like being able to chat and laugh together right at start from just talking about each other.

Just joined so I’m hoping it works haha

1074595 - 18 Sep, 2024 - 06:43PM

I like to break the ice by driving a large vehicle onto it - ideally with a load of bodies in the back for extra weight. Metaphorically at least. ;-)

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1074595 - 17 Sep, 2024 - 11:30PM

Hardly anything seems to work these days. People used to have a sense of humour - even as recently as three years ago!

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MagicMouse321 - 17 Sep, 2024 - 01:13PM

For men I guess I would recommend showing confidence without showing arrogance - demonstrate you know what you’re doing.

Personal without being a private eye - demonstrate you’ve read their profile and that you have something in common.

Show fun, without trying to be funny - show you have the need to have some fun out and about not with jokes that backfire. Sarcasm doesn’t come across online!

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marklondonengland - 17 Sep, 2024 - 12:41PM

This reminds me of another discussion here about the "best chat-up lines..."
If you read a profile, find something interesting and then ask the person about that subject then what could be better? Nobody wants a generic "Hey..." message, but if you have clearly read the profile and are interested in the person because of it then you will probably start a conversation - even if you don't click. I don't know why there is this endless debate around chat-up lines or conversation starters - as if there is some generic line that undresses every person you talk to...

1698750 - 17 Sep, 2024 - 11:42AM

Some profiles are very thin on the ground and it doesn’t give you a clue what to say as an opener but others are well written and interesting. Those are easier to reply to as you have something in common or you are at least interested in the person not just where they live and their body.

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1705941 - 12 Sep, 2024 - 11:17AM

just be natural!! And make sure you’ve read the profile! And ask a question! I personally feel men should approach naturally and not try too hard! But it’s different for every woman :)

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1702476 - 08 Sep, 2024 - 04:23PM

It’s quite simple really, all you have to do is distill your entire personality into a few lines of text. No more than a couple of paragraphs.

I’m not being sarcastic, just keep trying. Come up with a couple of lines that describe you well. Are you funny, serious, dignified, rough? Just be honest.

you want to meet the right person yeah? You don’t want to have to force your personality into a box for someone do you? Just be yourself, take the defeats with dignity and learn from the experiences.

Bacchus111 - 08 Sep, 2024 - 03:14PM

Breaking the ice is a necessary evil on this site but I so wish that that women would reply even if its just to say no. It's frustrating not knowing if a non response is due to lack of time, seeing someone else, or a strong dislike of my profile. I'm often confused by what stops a woman from replying to an ice breaker after they have checked out my profile. So as a request to all the women on here I'd love you to check out my profile and maybe let me know what puts you off from replying?

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