Advice on sexy texts
Okay, where do I start? I’ve been seeing this man now for a little while, and we started going out on dates just before the country stood still! It was really going great, lots of good food and wine, conversation flowing, flirting, holding hands… I was so eager to see him again! And finally ready to take the next step and be intimate with each other, I cannot even begin to explain the levels of excitement and anticipation. And then WHAM, the virus takes over the world and we can’t meet up. It’s driving me literally insane, I’ve never wanted to see someone so desperately in my life before - it’s crazy. Especially since I was holding off on our first few dates, you know, to build up the suspense. The chemistry is undeniable and I cannot wait to see him again, but in the meantime, he’s been sending me some rather dirty messages, my only problem is, I don’t think I’m terribly good at this all sex text thing. Does anyone have any tips?
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1588157 - 30 Sep, 2023 - 12:16AM
NINW
Mine usually say "pull my nightie down when you have finished".
P911 comatose
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Naughty in NW - 29 Sep, 2023 - 08:59PM
WillKr
We're all individual in terms of what makes things work. For me the small talk often leads to more meaningful and personal chats which adds to intimacy and closeness, which in my view really enhances the sex.
Unless you're very lucky, there's a chance your IE will say exactly that.......,'wake me up when you're done'. 😁
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1575033 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 08:58PM
Just ignore the content its just the little boy in him doing what he thinks is expected of him.
Better still look elsewhere.
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laugar164 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 04:49PM
Sexting for me only works once we have met and there a connection otherwise I might as well dial a 0845 number lol 😂
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FluffyClouds - 29 Sep, 2023 - 12:24AM
WillKr -
On the other hand, only sexting also becomes tedious and boring. And it has been noticed that that is all some people can do because they've actually not got anything of interest to talk about.
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Andrea Andrew - 28 Sep, 2023 - 08:41PM
WillKr
I agree… sexting is what keeps the relationship going…::
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1582640 - 28 Sep, 2023 - 02:33PM
Really epic sex is much in the realm of the mind, actual tugging at gubbins is purely functional, so if the texting is great, then the rw sex may well be great too.
I mean a lot of us cannot meet-up that much, so sexting is a big part in these relationships, otherwise if you just want mostly non sexy chat, well u can have that with mates and family
I bore very quickly with small talk ‘hows your day / my daughter has a swimming gala / I went to The Grand Union canal today’, wake me up when you’re done
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1408586 - 28 Sep, 2023 - 11:37AM
How did the meet go Lioness?
Alexis162 - 28 Sep, 2023 - 10:29AM
Sexting keeps the fire burning 🔥 especially if you are far from each other it’s easy just text what you want to do with them sexually and they would tell you fantasies or something they would like to act out once you get together can be as dirty as you like 😘 mmmmm
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Purple dreamer - 28 Sep, 2023 - 10:10AM
I have never been very keen on text sex , come on you could be saying I'm getting hot and steamy and actually be ironing Similar to the what you wearing and you describe lace etc and actually in your old joggers slobbing but i guess it all helps with the imagination and keeping the tension going
Oh dear purple they are not going to be beating down your in box now lol
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