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Advice on sexy texts

Okay, where do I start? I’ve been seeing this man now for a little while, and we started going out on dates just before the country stood still! It was really going great, lots of good food and wine, conversation flowing, flirting, holding hands… I was so eager to see him again! And finally ready to take the next step and be intimate with each other, I cannot even begin to explain the levels of excitement and anticipation. And then WHAM, the virus takes over the world and we can’t meet up. It’s driving me literally insane, I’ve never wanted to see someone so desperately in my life before - it’s crazy. Especially since I was holding off on our first few dates, you know, to build up the suspense. The chemistry is undeniable and I cannot wait to see him again, but in the meantime, he’s been sending me some rather dirty messages, my only problem is, I don’t think I’m terribly good at this all sex text thing. Does anyone have any tips?

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1623840 - 28 Sep, 2023 - 12:47AM

Only ever say what you want to say and what you enjoy being done to you. If you bring total filth to the table in the form of text when you are not total filth in reality then it's going to be obvious once you decide to take the plunge. For example yes my brains screams filth but my body confidence in reality doesn't quite measure up. I'm like two people in one. I have have had my body confidence knocked so I suppose that's what's holding the inner pornstar back ๐Ÿ˜‚ Just do YOU. Im here to be ME, nothing more, nothing less and I rate myself a pretty cool human. If I'm not someone's cup of tea fair play. Of the age imnot gonna cry tears over someone that can see past the lumpy bumpy bits under the fabric. Good luck and I'm happy you have found someone that makes you feel that rush ๐Ÿ˜˜

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TheBoredHousewife - 27 Sep, 2023 - 08:41PM

Paula99 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 04:43PM

Those copy and paste ones go immediately into Delete.

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1597404 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 07:28PM

I have never indulged in sexting so don't know if it would get the juices flowing, so to speak. However, I think I might feel a bit daft. Any tips would be appreciated ๐Ÿคช


Fireworks999 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 06:48PM

I hate sexting personally

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ExoticOrchid - 27 Sep, 2023 - 05:13PM

P99 - 04:43PM

Hear Hear! ๐Ÿ‘


Paula99 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 04:43PM

For all you aspiring Sexters..

Itโ€™s very easy to copy and paste sext and if it isnโ€™t done with imagination and skill I am afraid it just makes me want to vomit..
Itโ€™s not for everyone so donโ€™t assume that all women like it ..



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1625476 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 03:11PM

I'd advise being who you are and saying what you're confortable with. If you want to engage in this then think what you would like to do with him, to him or / and him on you in your mind. If that turns you on it will turn him on so just describe it in detail... Slowly! Never be afraid to be yourself! Good luck!


Swindonfuntime - 26 Sep, 2023 - 05:33PM

Just be natural, be yourself and go for it


ExoticOrchid - 26 Sep, 2023 - 02:53PM

C7423 ... what Sandypops (01:55AM) said. ๐Ÿ‘


Legs&Eyes - 26 Sep, 2023 - 10:28AM

Agree with all Sandypops says...

Harms no-one, can be a huge turn on and make the actual meets red-hot... and if the playing is going to happen solo then why not do it in tandom with a sexy caller/texter... you both enjoy and then move on..
For me a lot of this lies in fantasy-world anyway, the hotel meets, the secrecy and lies, the heels and stockings... a lot happens in the mind so a sexting chat can be red hot....

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