Discretion
Hi Sara,
Any suggestions on the best to keep an affair secret. Where to go , times
to meet ,quiet ot busy spots for dates.
New to this so any help is appreciated.
Thank you.
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Paula99 - 03 Apr, 2025 - 08:51AM
LeggySheila..
Your affair would be a little too close to home for me …I just hope it doesn’t all go wrong…😊
leggysheila - 03 Apr, 2025 - 08:44AM
Difficult to be honest. We all have different lifestyles and wants I've been having a affair right in the open my husband and family know him but not what we get up to when we have the chance got to admit it adds to the excitement xx
Funguy77 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 08:23PM
@leggysheila
If you couldn’t see how did you know it was him 🤦
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Carer69 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 08:10PM
Invent an innocent story about why you are meeting. A business meet, a social survey whatever. Then if you are spotted you've told people already.
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Jimjames350 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 09:36AM
Ask a friend or a mate on here for accommodation
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leggysheila - 02 Apr, 2025 - 07:44AM
I was fucked by my future husband on our first date that was a blind date xxx
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ad88xx - 01 Apr, 2025 - 04:49PM
Have a separate phone, or use good sec ops if using main phone (passcode, hidden apps, no notifications) also be wary of ai on your phone it can grass you up unintentionally (reminder to message your IE, common places to visit etc).
Have a reason for being there, I’ve joined a gym in my fav hotel, so that if I ever did get caught, I’ve the perfect reason for attending.
Make sure you understand the situation when getting intimate. If one or both like to be rough, no marks etc. if you use protection, make sure you really wash the smell of latex that can linger for ages if you are still intimate with your OH.
Other than that, that’s about all you can do.
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Purple dreamer - 01 Apr, 2025 - 12:33PM
Find a nice quiet place that is good for both of you
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SirrahNek - 30 Mar, 2025 - 08:56PM
@budgie817 - you’re allowed to do it on the lawn if there’s pampas grass in the front garden.
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budgie817 - 30 Mar, 2025 - 05:40PM
Do not under any circumstance take out a full page advert in the paper.
Do not do it on the front lawn, or middle of the road.
Or in front of friends or family of either yourself or your significant other.
Or on a live television outside broadcast.
Discretion is better part of...allure...
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