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Pussymilk - 27 Mar, 2025 - 10:47AM

Plan ahead on meeting up. Turn off any trackers chat about best time to chat to arrange meet ups. If you send pictures or messages then make sure you delete them. Try to meet up away from home town so that you don’t get caught out by mates. But good luck

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SirrahNek - 27 Mar, 2025 - 10:27AM

And turn your phone off! Quite apart from the fact that fiddling with your phone all the time isn’t attractive, you really don’t want to be tracked! And if your car has a tracker or any other kind of smarts, maybe leave it at home or rent one (or have a really good reason for why it’s parked outside Le Nouvelle Coq restaurant in Illicitencounterborough.). Ditto if your keys have an AirTag on them, take the AirTag off. And check your pockets!

Oh, and don’t wear a strong perfume or aftershave which might rub off and cause awkward questions for your partner.

But, other than that, what Funguy77 said.

Funguy77 - 27 Mar, 2025 - 09:36AM

It depends on what you are looking for from the affair.

Are you looking for romance are you looking for companionship? Or friends with no benefits or with benefits. Are both of you in a relationship or one of you single.Or are you in a sexless relationship .

Everyone’s situation is different so there’s no right or wrong answer here.

If you are in this journey for a relationship then there is no way to keep this secret as you will ultimately need to expose yourself to the public and by keeping it away from home then you start to create logistical challenges and cost . So if it’s just sex the need to be touched recognised as a human being who has needs and desires then this is what I do and it’s completely subjective .
If you are wanting the full on experience of a romantic relationship then out of town hotel restaurant would be the safest in my opinion If it’s just sex then there is day use hotels in every city that offer flexible rooms times and rate to suit and the added benefit of sho

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