When will I see you again?
I have met 4 beautiful ladies in the past few months since joining IE. I enjoyed all my meets enough to have a second date but have subsequently been ghosted and rejected by all of them. I have another first meet arranged next week. What can I do to increase my chances of a second meet and hopefully a longer term IE?
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marklondonengland - 03 Apr, 2025 - 10:55AM
This one keeps coming around... man ghosted by 4 women asking 'how do I get a second date' without even asking 'is this about me?'
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Funguy77 - 03 Apr, 2025 - 10:53AM
Hey @Timber77,
Your profile looks solid—it’s unique and gives a good sense of who you are. In this space, women are constantly being bombarded with messages from all kinds of guys, so standing out is key. Personally, I’ve never met a woman who can resist someone who can make her laugh—humor goes a long way.
One thing I’d suggest tweaking is the line, "I can be whatever you want me to be." It could come off as a little cheesy or cringe depending on how it’s read. Just a small observation from my side.
Also, keep in mind that not all women are necessarily looking for a relationship. Some are just after a fun, no-strings-attached situation or someone who can absolutely F-ing blow their mind in bed. It’s worth considering what type of connection you're aiming for, and how to make that clear.
Hope that helps!
Timber77 - 03 Apr, 2025 - 10:06AM
Sorry, but can't help. I'm struggling to get a first meet. Not sure why because in real world I get interest fairly regularly. Can tou advise what your skills are in getting a first date 😁
budgie817 - 30 Mar, 2025 - 05:42PM
It's begun to melt though...don't end up looking like a 2 year old Easter afternoon
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Paula99 - 27 Mar, 2025 - 05:30AM
Budgie817…
The flake is the best part …😉
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budgie817 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 07:42PM
Paula99
Can’t hurt to ask for feedback though can it and verbally looking for feedback before departing probably wise ‘was good to meet you hope we can meet up again…’ kind of thing and see if they look horrified.
It does sound like they are doing something off putting.
Are you called Paula 99 because you put a flake in it?
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Paula99 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 05:10PM
Budgie817…
Come off it ….as if asking for feedback is gonna work 😂
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budgie817 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 04:23PM
Maybe less is more, did you do anything off putting, say or act in a way liable to put them off, give them the impression of being out for yourself, not show any interest beyond bumping uglies.
Maybe a little conversation before leaving and be honest about intentions going forwards and maintaining contact, thanking them for a nice time etc. Or just ask for feedback.
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