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Johnt697 - 01 Sep, 2024 - 11:38PM

Casual can be a encounter or an adventure, 1 meeting or a regular meet that works for both parties

1695729 - 30 Aug, 2024 - 01:34PM

I once had a lover, a widow, who wasn't ready for a relationship but missed physical intimacy and sex. She was delighted to find a married man to help her. I wouldn't say there was no "connection " between us but there was certainly no expectation for either of us that there would be a relationship. Perhaps this could be described as casual. Very many men and women here aren't looking to change their home circumstances. Perhaps thus renders any IE a purely casual exercise.

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Unwoke! - 30 Aug, 2024 - 11:26AM

If in doubt; ask. You no likey answer, you move on!

Monicas55 - 30 Aug, 2024 - 07:58AM

Some chaps confuse casual with relationship too I feel.
Met a few and all they want is sex but camouflage with also stating there needs to be some sort of feeling too!

Maeve is Here - 26 Aug, 2024 - 08:26PM

Casual seems like a piece of string really.
My understanding is also seeing someone once in a blue moon etc. as in the question, but dated someone from here last year with ‘Casual’ as their status who came on strong then disappeared after about 6 months.
For me - Casual is less than FWB

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Anna and her King - 25 Aug, 2024 - 10:10PM

I am one with ‘see how it goes’. It is what it says on the tin, i.e. the couple will decide what the best course of action for them is. I feel it is different from a set ‘casual’ scenario or one with a time or emotional factor.

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EmnEm123 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 09:36PM

Vintage 24 P99

Perhaps he's just a liar, or would like to be considered a player.

There's a guy on here who told me that he's a sex addict 🥱 and that he had five "on the go"!

I didn't believe him of course, he's not all that.

Plus where would anyone get the time? I'm not sure if the five included his wife.

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Paula99 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 09:08PM

Vintage24 …

Don’t take it too personally….you have just encountered a ‘player ‘ …the guy is an arsehole …x

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Vintage24 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 07:35PM

I was chatting to a guy who wanted casual only, turns out he wanted regular sex (once every few weeks wasn’t enough) but without anything else, didn’t ask any questions about me or wish to actually get to know me, turns out he was also seeing someone, leading them on thinking she was the only one yet he was still actively looking for more to have sex with (though he claimed to want only one).

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EmnEm123 - 25 Aug, 2024 - 03:14PM

At least it's honest.

What does "short term" really mean or "see how it goes"?

Any new relationship is see how it goes surely.
And short term, three, six, ten months?

I'm sensing a bit of judgement which always makes me laugh from the people on a site like this.