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ionesco - 09 Feb, 2024 - 08:45PM

I have met many lovely women here. I have at times not continued, and i realised thats more about me than them. I hadn't realised how not being wanted in my marriage made me not believe others wanted me...even though the irony is that i joined here to alter that and have indeed been wanted!...It was deeper than i thought...the doubt i mean. And im a confident man!

However, after me almost leaving again..i have now found what i was seeking for two years. She has also been on IE before. But its more than i could possibly have wished for. Fort all the stress some can cause on the site, the site has been pretty good I'll be honest!. And since im on cloud 9 I couldn't be happier.

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1637273 - 01 Feb, 2024 - 09:46PM

Marlen,

The same with me. Every single person I've met - all five. It has developed.

But getting to a meeting - nightmare

1645651 - 29 Jan, 2024 - 07:40AM

I've had a couple of very successful long term IEs and both have been with wonderful men, both very different and not at all who I anticipated I would share private moments with....guess I'm a very lucky lady

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1636787 - 27 Jan, 2024 - 06:33PM

I don't anticipate, perhaps fantasise but I really do have an open mind.
Who knows what is just around the corner?

giggly hamster - 26 Jan, 2024 - 05:53PM

I'll second that High Five. nice work Marlen, there's hopes for us undertalls yet.

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1586130 - 24 Jan, 2024 - 08:16PM

Hi Five for Marlen. Proof that normal guys doing face to face interactions fare far better if they're not shackled by the apps.

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Marlen - 23 Jan, 2024 - 06:01PM

I forgot to add, from 3 meets, 3 IEs, so 100% conversion 🤣 following meetings but less than 0.002% success from messages to meeting...

It's clearly a numbers game, or I need to double date with Brad, George, or Jason and be the grateful one🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Marlen - 23 Jan, 2024 - 05:57PM

In my experience, success rates are low..my handicap is being 5'8", so instantly reduces my pool of potential admirers by 98%. In two years being here, I've probably contacted 1500+ ladies with bespoke messages, not cut and paste, across 8 regions that I could expect to engage in. I've met 3 IRL and enjoyed 3 IEs.

None, has been, the perfect IE , but you can't tell that in advance. However, you never know till you try.

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1447655 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 06:44PM

DreamFinder

0.2%? That's a lot of dates...But your stats may be better than mine, you could 'dip-in' to London or Brighton. I strongly suspect the odds are better there! 😉

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1639246 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 06:20PM

Eliza Boo - 7.4% ??? 😳😳

I’ve already calculated the chance of a meet originating from a first message as approximately 3%.

Applying 7.4% to that throws my calculator into a psychological meltdown.

Still worth the effort though….😊

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