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Funguy77 - 24 Mar, 2025 - 07:31AM

Arrange your meets so you don’t need an alibi . Remember the truth is Easter to remember.

I’m a Thursday lunchtime no one around free and aeasy day use hotel it’s like a spa day

PoundCakeRecipe - 24 Mar, 2025 - 12:22AM

I personally have no issue and need for an alibi.

I would suggest sowing a seed really early, making them aware that at some point you will need to be away for a while or even the night and try to normalise it.

Work tends to be the best cover as it rarely gets challenged. I suppose those that don't have that luxury will need a pastime that gets them out of the house. Most say hobbies but i hope you are actually getting good at it, nothing more embarrassing then your OH asking to see your skills when you haven't learnt anything apart from the colour of your lovers genitalia.

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John-1971 - 23 Mar, 2025 - 10:53PM

I use the same technique

KerryElizabeth - 12 Mar, 2025 - 07:02AM

I use seeing my friends as my alibi, especially in an evening. As I regularly meet up with friends this keeps me off the radar, especially when my husband picks me up after meeting them and he sees them.
Work colleagues birthdays are another reason I give for going out, but I try not to do this too often.
A friend has suggested I take up a hobby that my husband has no interest in.

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jonotwo - 10 Mar, 2025 - 06:45PM

Yes a hobby is the way to go and though you can slip in the noookie nights, it is important to do the hobby as well

Lookingfun5518 - 10 Mar, 2025 - 01:34PM

Dont dull

SirrahNek - 08 Mar, 2025 - 07:46PM

I'm inclined to agree with everyone who suggests a hobby which gives you a plausible reason for getting away. I also recommend being forgetful (because electronic devices can be tracked). You wouldn't believe how often I leave my phone behind! Silly me. I'm such a muggins.
I also have a hobby which enables me to get away for hours (or days) at a time. And usually, yes, I am doing that hobby (because I really like it!) - it's just that sometimes I might not be.
Oh, and I reckon it'd be wise to start this hobby some time before embarking on anything which might require an alibi. Of course, you might already have such a hobby - in which case, crack on!

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Paula99 - 08 Mar, 2025 - 06:01PM

I used to date a guy …his alibi was the Climbing Wall …he did go on a regular basis but he would use this ‘nookie night ‘

Your ‘excuses’ should be viable so your lies are ‘little white ones ‘ that don’t arise suspicion…Women are exceptionally good at noticing changes in behaviour …this is where guys fail miserably ….hide everything in plain sight!!!!!😇

tmn2024 - 08 Mar, 2025 - 03:17PM

Crispy - sorry, it does look like I was addressing you directly but I wasn't, I hadn't even read your post to be honest. I was directly addressing the original question about someone looking for an alibi. My "no no no" was meant to be an emphatic disagreement that an alibi it what is required.

All good.

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Crispy - 08 Mar, 2025 - 12:47PM

Tmn2024 - I did say start a new hobby..... Walks can involve your other half and as you've said once they start to think walking for 5 hours on a weekend is for you but not for them then you've got time to walk and take advantage of this time for other activities - whatever they are....

You've got to think that for a while your life is a routine isn't it so you need to break that with new things.... there will be likely restistance if it isn't for them, it's for you, you just need to remember that....

Music - ha ha ha, mate, I can't carry a chooon..
That is something that WOULD be seen through.