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boav91 - 04 Dec, 2024 - 07:09AM

So my view on this has shifted a little over the year. I still think the risk is different between single people and married but it is a different risk not no risk. I was recently talking to a friend of 20 years. She is going through a messy divorce and there is no way she will want to be in a relationship for a while but knowing her and having got drunk with her in the past, I know she would miss the physical. A place like this would be really good for her. So my view is now if two consenting adults want to have fun go for it. Be honest about your situation and enjoy. We are all here for fun not hate, so live and let live is my current view on this.

ExoticOrchid - 03 Dec, 2024 - 10:14PM

Both men and women here do judge ... every so often the "smug marrieds" indulge in single bashing here on the Forum.

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Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 10:08PM

Caio1970…

Getting personal dosen’t win in any way … it just shows a lack of intelligence

Fellotraveller - 03 Dec, 2024 - 10:04PM

I don’t know the answer to that question. You would have thought that this should be the least judgemental place anywhere.
Personally, I want to have a respectful physical connection without the emotional commitment

ExoticOrchid - 03 Dec, 2024 - 09:45PM

Welshchick69 - 06:22PM

Oh yes they do!!!

Ciao1970 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 08:42PM

@Paula99

You represent the "Judging community" from your comment perfectly.....and by your emoji.

Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:58PM

Ciao1970 ….

Are you saying that only single people can be independent?

🙄

Welshchick69 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:22PM

Since joining IE I have always been upfront that I am single.
I have never felt judged by any gentlemen I’ve met, messaged or chatted with.
Nobody on this site is in a position to judge.

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Ciao1970 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:17PM

Poor old Greg Wallace has been judged recently.....there's no getting away from it. If you put yourself in the frame, there's always someone who will take pot shots at your "character", because they've been brought up differently. Woke society at it's very best! Stay single and be proud that you can be independent!

Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 02:20PM

People will judge you for eating meat ..smoking …drinking …taking drugs …not taking exercise …why should being single be any different?

As long as you mention your status and your intentions married/single either way you are still involved in someone else’s marriage…

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