Comments (180)

ExoticOrchid - 03 Dec, 2024 - 09:45PM

Welshchick69 - 06:22PM

Oh yes they do!!!

Ciao1970 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 08:42PM

@Paula99

You represent the "Judging community" from your comment perfectly.....and by your emoji.

Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:58PM

Ciao1970 ….

Are you saying that only single people can be independent?

🙄

Welshchick69 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:22PM

Since joining IE I have always been upfront that I am single.
I have never felt judged by any gentlemen I’ve met, messaged or chatted with.
Nobody on this site is in a position to judge.

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Ciao1970 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:17PM

Poor old Greg Wallace has been judged recently.....there's no getting away from it. If you put yourself in the frame, there's always someone who will take pot shots at your "character", because they've been brought up differently. Woke society at it's very best! Stay single and be proud that you can be independent!

Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 02:20PM

People will judge you for eating meat ..smoking …drinking …taking drugs …not taking exercise …why should being single be any different?

As long as you mention your status and your intentions married/single either way you are still involved in someone else’s marriage…

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Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 01:27PM

Kentotk…

If you don’t want comments on your ‘hidden proclivities’ why are you posting on the forum …?

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marklondonengland - 03 Dec, 2024 - 12:28PM

The first time I joined IE I was at the end point in my marriage. I knew it was going to finish, but I didn't know exactly when. When I did get divorced, I stayed here and made it clear that I was single and divorced, but was not looking for a new partner because I had just been married to someone for 12 years and I needed some time without that commitment.

Everyone I talked to appreciated that I was just direct and honest about my own situation. I never really found anyone suspicious of my motives. If someone felt that I was not being straight with them then I didn't continue talking to that person.

I met a new IE who was married and her kids went to school near to my home, so it was a nice arrangement where she might be "delayed" on the school run now and then. It worked for both of us, regardless of me no longer being married.

The key is just to be open about what you want... and be honest with yourself about it too, because if you find you are falling for an IE then it can end in tears...

Kentotk - 03 Dec, 2024 - 09:35AM

Anyone who is playing away has no right to comment on the reasons or circumstances of another's position. If that were the case then 'let he who is without sin...'

I have a platonic relationship after my wife admitted her libido has just died - mine has not though I cannot suggest to her that I go outside our marriage, that would just not work and break us - something I do not want to do to my best mate.

That said, whilst looking around for an affair, I want something specific and more adventurous - should I be judged and commented upon for my hidden proclivities?

Scrappymog - 03 Dec, 2024 - 09:07AM

Very deep, Deeper.