** LIVE NOW ** Is conversation a dying art?

I am finding that a lot of men who I chat with have very little to say. They don't seem to...

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Questions that make them go 🙄

I have been on this website for a few months with not much success. I get that ladies are...

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What is everyone’s opinion fantasy and role playing?

Please share your thoughts

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When do we stop pursuing?

It is a challenge to get women to respond. How much effort should I make, and how long should I...

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Tattoos - Yes or no ?

What are your thoughts on tattoos? Do you like them or loathe them? Do you find them sexy? Would...

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Why do we want to have an affair?

Why men cheat VS why women cheat... discuss!

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How do you know?

Hi,
I am iffing and umming about taking the plunge and having an affair. I've met...

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What are you after?

Is everybody here after a traditional affair or something more unconventional?

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New Years Resolution

Has having an IE made you stick to your New Year's resolution more? I personally have been...

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New Year, New Me?

I have decided 2026 is going to be my year! One of my main priorities is to find happiness for...

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How Explicit should Private Photos be?

OK, I realise that some people put their pictures as private to protect their identity. That is...

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Red Flags!

We experience several glimpses at new potential IEs everyday via profiles.
What are the...

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