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Paula99 - 04 Jan, 2025 - 05:25PM

Exotic Orchid…

I wonder what old Quasimodo is doing these days ..

😂😂😂

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ExoticOrchid - 04 Jan, 2025 - 05:11PM

P99 - 04:31PM

Exactly ... we've been here before ... you know what I'm going to say right ... Quasimodo !!! 🤣

What gets me is the ones getting on their high horses pretending physical attraction isn't what they are looking for ... to get to the important bits, you need to want to engage first which means some sort of physical attraction ... the rest then follows ... or not as the case may be!

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Paula99 - 04 Jan, 2025 - 04:31PM

Omfg…get the bloody violins out…

I had a conversation with a guy on here… we were talking about looks and personality and which comes first …the guy comes across as genuine so I asked him a direct question …he gave me the correct answer but not entirely truthful…but he did reply with something that made me think …yes I like this guy ..
In the grand scheme of things you do need to be physically attracted to someone but that isn’t the glue that holds you together…you need personality./character/ thoughtfulness and above all Investment ..

If you don’t initially fancy the OP and after having a conversation with them…then say your goodbyes…..you can’t invent chemistry….

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giggly hamster - 04 Jan, 2025 - 03:42PM

Two line drawn persons holding hands..
 
bugger, that's Love is...
 
Lets start again...
 
...anything you want it to be. one person's gold is another's poison.
 
Me, I'm greedy and want it all.  A banging rack,  legs to 11 and hips that even if they can't bear children make the best grab handles if I'm er.. we’ll 😇
Her profile pics will make me bite my lip, cross my legs, flush hot. I won’t be able to get her into my eyeballs quick enough.
 
She'll have a smile that makes my heart miss a beat, and eyes I can drown in, lips that are so kissable I'll never want to be away from them, she'll be sensual and an utter whore in the bedroom and I will be her he-whore, which makes me a donkey, and then I can nuzzle her hair in the afterglow.
 
However, I  know my limits, failings and  shortcomings, so all I can offer is to be the best I can be and hope she buys into that.   She's no pushover, she knows what she wants and won't suffer fools gladly,  yet she's picked me. And that for me

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ExoticOrchid - 04 Jan, 2025 - 02:41PM

F66 - 01:01PM

Honey, please don't lecture me ... be sanctimonious by all means in your 1% Club's Ivory Tower ... I've been here (very successfully) longer than you have have been having hot dinners ... I know what I'm talking about!

The bottom line is ... if the shoe fits ... if it doesn't, chill ... 🤷🏻‍♀️

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AphaSally - 04 Jan, 2025 - 02:22PM

To put it simply, I think we all like what we like. And being adults we are allowed to somethings attractive and some not so, I say. If the likes collide or click, great... We are here to find what we like after all. Attractive, can be subjective, no need to apologise for what works for each of us 😀

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ssbbwmum3 - 04 Jan, 2025 - 02:17PM

I prefer a man who you can have a good connection with but me personally being a big girl find that men are not interested in that just what you look like.

Lec2024 - 04 Jan, 2025 - 01:12PM

Intelligence goes a very long way.

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LadyDe - 04 Jan, 2025 - 11:14AM

@Quirky Bird

I couldn’t agree more, for me it’s all about the personality, fun, banter without this there is no connection… you can find someone attractive, but once you’ve had naughty time if you can’t chat, have a laugh, or not start yawning then what’s the point it just becomes an ONS or something mechanical…
Yes that’s confidence without the cockiness.. although I’m sorry to say but I do sit in the category of height, I can oversee size, shape, bald, hairy etc but not shorter than me 😬

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Quirky-Birdy - 04 Jan, 2025 - 09:41AM

I like fun guys with confidence. On here the worst messages I get are 'hey, how are you?' Send me somthing fun or interesting and I'm intrigued enough to look and reply.
After that I like someone a little rough around the edges preferably not skinny.
I like confidence but not cockyness. I never realised there was so many insecure men in the world untill I got on here!

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