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Attractiveness is...

Men, what do you find attractive in a female? Fashion, makeup, figure, looks, personality?

Women, what do you find attractive in a man? Suits, casual, formal, hair, height, size, personality?

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1742947 - 20 Mar, 2025 - 12:22PM

Attraction is a function of a combination of factors, dofferent factors for different guys (and girls). AS MLK once said
you can play a tune on the black keys and you can play a tune on the white keys but for harmony you need a little bit of both... so a great arse can move me, amazing boobs can exsite me - (from B/C/D its the way you wear them ), a smile, great teeth and full lips can get me oyxtocin racing and your eyes can unlock our souls, but dress that up in amazing clothes (Jesus said the woman makes the dress..(may be slightly anachronistic and sexist for 2025), but I believe the dress makes the woman! That can be a tight white T with ripped jeans to the short dress with easy access to frame your legs. Whatever it is if it moves me -let's do it some more!

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rarity23 - 19 Mar, 2025 - 05:08PM

I think personality is the most important thing for me, someone genuine, and honest...... with me, anyway !!
Good sense of humour helps too, and the rest seems to naturally click into place, on meeting

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Tstopman - 19 Mar, 2025 - 10:39AM

I find good manners attractive. When someone has clearly read your profile, taken time to write a message that it is individual, considered and polite the very least you should do is acknowledge it and if you’re not interested a polite thank you but no thank you would be good.

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Here we go 693 - 19 Mar, 2025 - 09:37AM

Strictly human and female, all other qualities are dependent upon the right person...

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cardiff84m - 18 Mar, 2025 - 12:38PM

Confidence is crucial - so sexy. When she knows what she wants and goes for it. Good sense of humour.

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budgie817 - 18 Mar, 2025 - 11:18AM

It’s a bit like how long is a piece of string, there is no fixed answer.
It can be the way you smile, dress, personality , think, laugh, walk, or the physical attributes you were born with.
We all have preferences on things but they should only be preferences, people aren’t a tick lists.
Height for example has nothing to do with who you are it’s pure genetic luck, may mean taller = more confidence and great chance of being thinner but doesn’t define personality.
A nice smile and sunny disposition goes a long way.


Ms Cashmere - 18 Mar, 2025 - 05:23AM

Attractiveness is.....self awareness, maturity and emotional regulation with common sense.

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astral1967 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 09:11PM

personality


sudboy70 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 12:26PM

Someone who is funny but not cocky


RickMaestro - 16 Mar, 2025 - 05:01PM

I’m going to go against convention here and say that I find a woman who smokes really attractive. In addition to that I’d say someone who can hold a meaningful conversation and I’d be on to a winner!!

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