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Dave 2025 - 06 May, 2025 - 10:50AM

May be I'm just old school.
I think it is good to have a balanced conversation, the home life issues are probably common to both parties and it gives that bond and understanding . However I feel it is also important to have that parallel life of flirting and fun with some caring affection that builds an attraction .
It's just a shame we are in this virtual digital world...

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Here we go 693 - 05 May, 2025 - 10:06PM

Get away

My last affair was with someone looking for an exit. She was a lovely person and it was a great year (I wish it went on for longer). However it does highlight that there are women, and I don't doubt me, who use this site and having an affair as a prelude to leaving their marital relationship. Iake no judgement on this, people do what they do. It doesn'tean they shouldnt be listened to. It might just be their last cry for help.

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mayoman - 05 May, 2025 - 09:27PM

A person who behaves in that manner to me would be wrapped up in themselves so it would be exited as quickly as possible without being rude.....

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Get_away - 05 May, 2025 - 04:31PM

I think I’d be more concerned that they are so overly unhappy with their situation that they want an exit plan. Although I guess they would have done that prior to IE (I’d hope!). Could it be a sign of loneliness or their personality? We have to take personal responsibility for our life choices.

I don’t ask personal questions prior to meeting but their situation is what brought them here. I think all of that information prior to meeting would put me off as it’s telling me about their personality traits and how they connect

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Cheryl Kim - 05 May, 2025 - 03:57PM

EmnEm123 - 05 May, 2025 - 03:49PM

Can’t win ‘em all.

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EmnEm123 - 05 May, 2025 - 03:49PM

I don't want to hear anyone venting, shut up, where is the fun in that?

I was speaking to a guy on here, we had already established it was a no from me, but FGS, all he did was carp and complain about his Mrs.

What a bore fest.

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Cheryl Kim - 05 May, 2025 - 03:26PM

Mirror mirror on the wall, who’s the biggest whinger of them all? 🤔

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Paula99 - 05 May, 2025 - 03:15PM

tnm2024..

If I wrote what you referred to in your last post then …it wouldn’t have been allowed to be seen …

I would be perceived as an ‘angry bird’ with nothing better to do than winge about the opposite sex ..

The AI 🤖 is always in favour of the paying customers

Kisses The Texture Of Velvet - 05 May, 2025 - 03:08PM

It would depend on if I like the man or not.

If I do then I'll consider it as "sharing" since it probably would link to the conversation we are having. However, if I'm neutral or less about him then I'll think it is too much for a first or second date.

I think if a man is very moany in messages before we even meet then I can't say it is a share because he has not met me yet and therefore can't read the chemistry between us. And i dont think i would ask personal questions in messages anyway.

So moany messages would be too much for me.

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smartypants12345 - 05 May, 2025 - 12:54PM

I found myself drifting off just reading the question